Do you have sexuality problem in your marriage?

Question

I have been married for 3 years and my husband lost his sexual appetite for the past two years,it is hard to undrestand why but to me it is a big problem beacuse I am a very sexual person,I have anxiety and stress all the time and he thinks it is not big deal.

Answer 1

so did you marry him JUST for that..?/

Answer 2

Yes we do and like you I'm a very sexual person and she has never been to sexual from day one,But me on the other hand I've always loved expressing my in a sexual way.don't get me wrong I sex is not everything in a relationship but to me sex let's me connect in a kind of spiritual way it goes way beyond the oh baby make me feel good stuff and it does cause problems sometimes for us because I'm so sexual.Not bragging or anything but in all my previous relationships I would get it at least 4-6 times a week and even though see always made it clear to me it has not been a big thing for her we still use to do it 3-4 times a week and now were married and she tries to do it as less as possible so I understand where your coming from good luck.

Answer 3

Sometimes when people get into a routine, then the fun stuff falls by the way side. Make it interesting for him. Play fantasy games, come on to him, you be the initiater. You take the reins. I take it when I want it, and if that means that I am waking him up at 3 in the morning after feeding the baby with a BJ then by all means I am getting it!!! Be spontaneous. If this still doesn't work see a sex therapist, a counselor or the like. Maybe something is bothering him. Who knows? But your marriage is worth it to find out. I have been with my husband for four years and we still have sex 4-6 times a week. Go for it! Good Luck!!

Answer 4

I think ALL couples have sexual problems at one time or another.

Maybe he should go to the doctor. There could be something wrong with him.

I have stress and anxiety all the time too and i could care less if i have sex or not.
Personally, i would rather have more than four hours of sleep at night.

Answer 5

my wife just doesnt seem to have time for sex anymore. she is ateacher at a elementary school and she has a 13 year old daughter that needs extra time as well. after her day actually ends. she is totally worn out..and since I work every weekend. I am too worn out as well.my job requires about 70 hrs or more a week and her job takes about 50.. but the children at hoime take a lot more of her time.. I help as much as I can but its never enough to squeeze in some lovemaking

Answer 6

Find out why he lost his libido. Generally there is a reason he isnt having sex with you. Secondly, express your needs to him. After a while he'll get the hint or you might have to face the fact that he doesnt care. There is a solution in your situation its just a matter of finding it or even possibly getting divorced.

Answer 7

married 6 years now and it seemed once the band went on the sex stopped, he was very sexual till we married, now nothing
I feel your pain and wish Id never married, I t only got worst instead of better . we fight all the time and I STAY SEXUALLY FRUSTRATED. it has tore up apart, cause he is too stupid to see the pain this has caused me

Answer 8

He needs to get checked out, either he has a medical problem, or he is getting some on the side....

Have you gained alot of weight since you got married?

Answer 9

Yeah. My husband can only get it up if he is jacking off to little girls and teens on the computer. He can't get it up with a real live, grown woman. I am getting it annuled.

Answer 10

im in the same boat but i have been married 14 years now dont know what to do

Answer 11

have him go to the dr, first of all to be sure it's not physical. just know it's not your fault but help him to find the answer for the both of your sake.