I just came to the realisation, that is the next month I will be a mother, and it has scared me silly. Is anyone else the same?
2007-02-28 11:17:19 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
I think all first time moms -to- be feel this way. I know I did. You will feel all sort of emotions up until the moment you become a mother. After the birth, nothing else in the world matters. Pure joy and excitement is what you will feel. Instant love and amazement. Good luck and congrats!!
2007-02-28 11:24:56 · answer #1 · answered by joolybean28 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was scared when I was having my daughter. I went to my 36 week check up and was told I needed to go to the hospital right then and there to be induced. I wasn't prepared to be a mom 4 weeks early, but when it's all said and done, once you hold your child things will change. As soon as my daughter was placed in my arms I felt comfortable and at home. I wasn't scared or worried about anything anymore and I knew right then I would be a great mom. I hope things go well for you. Just try not to stress....stress isn't good for the baby : )
2007-02-28 11:26:19 · answer #2 · answered by krazyk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be scared. You should be on top of the world. Just take things as they come. You will be just fine. As long as you are doing what you're supposed to do, everything should be going great for you. Try not to be scared. It's a time of not knowing how it's going to happen, when it's going to happen. When it does you will have your mind on what's going on and forget about being scared. You won't be alone. You'll have the doctor there with his nurses and your family. What an exciting time for you and your husband.
2007-02-28 11:29:53 · answer #3 · answered by Barbra 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to take a deep breath and calm down... there are obviously other people that are scared around this time, just like you! It is natural to be worried... especially if it is your first baby... So, seriously just breath... and if you are concerned about something going wrong, or you know there is something wrong, see a doctor ASAP... I know this makes it sound like it isn't hard or anything, and I know it is- so trust me, I don't blame you for being confused or worried! Good luck and I hope everything works out for you!
2007-02-28 11:24:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been scared too and I'm just 23 weeks. I think fear about caring for a new life is completely normal, otherwise there wouldn't be so many advice books.
2007-02-28 11:20:21 · answer #5 · answered by kittenbrower 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh yeah, Not so much becuase this is my 2nd, but with my 1st, I was so so scared. Once you bring that baby home, it all goes away, Its weird, its like you have done it many of times before. You know exactly what to do. Good luck!!
2007-02-28 11:20:56 · answer #6 · answered by Jen L 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-17 09:34:02 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont be scared. When you start to get scared just breath in then out..that will calm you down..
2007-02-28 11:26:28 · answer #8 · answered by Carley S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well tomorrow im also 37 wks pregnant and im 3 cm dialated i also freaked cause im dialating so fast last wednesday i was not at all dialated as of monday i was 3 cm dialated...this is my second baby and yes im scared to death that my daughter will not like me anymore..lol..she is only 14 months old and im 19 yrs old...lol...so yes im scared but its all normal....my doc im due anyday now and she thinks im not gonna make it next wk....lol
2007-02-28 11:23:56 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
everyone is scared at first...I am scared to death...but it dosent out way the joys of holding your lil self made sculpture in you hands...i wont tell you to not be scared bc its a scary thing becoming a parent...just take it in stride..I am sure you will be great!!
2007-02-28 11:49:07 · answer #10 · answered by tristansmommy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋