how do I have sex? Does it hurt?
2007-02-28 11:12:32 · 9 answers · asked by ~sweetness 101~ 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
If you have to ask how to do it....don't do it. You're not ready.
2007-02-28 12:07:17 · answer #1 · answered by basketcase88 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
first off, are you a boy or a girl?
if you are a boy, first you need to get a condom that fits. provide stimulation for your partner (to get her very lubricated) you need to stimulate her clitoris and surrounding areas...after she is sufficiently lubricated, make sure that your penis is fully erect, open the condom package (that you have not had in your wallet or glove box in the car) and unroll the condom completely down your penis making sure that you save the tip at then end for your ejaculate...(CHECK THE EXPIRATION DATE AS WELL) it may be easier the first time for her to be on top...so ask her to get on top of your penis and let her vagina slide down over your penis...after you ejaculate, your penis will start to shrink rather quickly, so make sure that when she gets off, you hold onto your condom to prevent an accident (read dad here)...the more that you 2 participate, the easier it will become and the more positions that you can do
if you are the girl, make sure that you are sufficiently lubricated...if you feel that you are not, and you may need some lubricant help, use KY jelly (or a water soluble lubricant) because vaseline will help destroy the latex material (read mom here). It may be more comfortable the first time with you on top...you merely slide up and down on his penis massaging your clitoris and soon you should have an orgasm...it will take practice for a few times, as he will probably ejaculate much faster than you will have an orgasm...(that is learned behavior for him, because if he masturbates, he will do it quickly to get to the fun part fast and also so that his mom doesn't catch him)...so he needs to think of everyone in his 6th grade class row by row (or some other diversionary technique) unless he is only in the 4th grade (and then you are stuck)...hopefully he will last as long as you do, so you can share the pleasure together...
good luck
2007-03-02 02:41:12 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it comes naturally when u are ready, the first time it may be uncomfortable but it gets better.
2007-02-28 19:34:44 · answer #3 · answered by sunflare63 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you need to ask how to have sex you are way to young to be doing it.
2007-02-28 19:18:10 · answer #4 · answered by sdtsareb 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
If you really want to know, go ask your mom, dad, or a trusted adult.
2007-02-28 21:20:26 · answer #5 · answered by Apfel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you need to ask, you are probabaly way too young to have to worry about that kind of thing
2007-02-28 19:41:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
you shouldn't even b askin strangers about that. you aint ready to have sex!!!!!!
2007-03-01 10:55:07 · answer #7 · answered by Princess K 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
youre too young... go see a priest
2007-02-28 22:34:49 · answer #8 · answered by home_buddy15 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i'm thinking ur 2 young......
2007-02-28 19:54:15 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋