I have a friend who started to hang out with "the cool people" at school and he rarely hangs out with me anymore because i guess he doesn't want them to know he associates with me. When they're not around he is a really nice person to me though. I talked to him about it but nothing changed. What should I do?
2007-02-28 11:02:26 · 9 answers · asked by bagger12 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
he's not much of a friend then if he does that. your only good enough for him when there not around. that shows the kinda person he really is. if you like being second best and so forth then keep being friends with him. why don't you find a new group of friends to hang out with and give him a dose of his own medicine. true friends don't do that to start with. when you get older you will find out there was no cool guys in school. there just like you but people think they are. or if you would like to start hanging out with them. he may not like it though. people do change over time and he's just spreading his wings and you need to do the same. just make sure you pick the right group. If nothing changed when you talked to him you have your answer! dont sweat the small stuff.
2007-02-28 11:23:31 · answer #1 · answered by wishstar28 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he was a real friend he wouldn't avoid you like that being with a different people. Hes probably bald up in pair pressure. You should move on and not care too much about your so called friend. Thats not what friendship is suppose to be like. Its way better. And if he doesn't understand how you feel, then just act along. be happy, put your head up, and hang out with other people. When seeing your friend wave hi, and be polite,and just keep walking. Treat him, how hes treating you. Not revenge or to make him feel bad. It sounds like hes pretty two- faced to me. I know what that feels like.
I had a friend, and she switched up on me in a mininum of time throughout the school year. So I just moved on, and kepted smiing keeping my life positive, and forgetting people that don't matter anymore. Thats something I feel you should do.
Well, good day!!! :)Nice helping you. LOLZ
2007-02-28 19:20:06 · answer #2 · answered by Ebby♥♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then just start hang around with different people like your other friends and ignore him.
2007-02-28 19:08:31 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would treat him exactly how he treats you. Give him a taste of his own immaturity. Maybe sometime later this year he'll grow out of it but for the time being he needs other people to choose his friends for him. (His mom probably picks out his clothes) If he doesn't change then forget him.
2007-02-28 19:14:20 · answer #4 · answered by charmedone31 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
start hanging out with him and "the cool people"
2007-02-28 19:06:37 · answer #5 · answered by J C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep him as a friend, but don't be surprised if he suddenly stops hanging out with you... I've had that kinda happen.
2007-02-28 19:27:29 · answer #6 · answered by Weston 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You talked to him....Nothing changed.Thats your answer..
Move on with other friends and have fun . If he's a friend he'll be back ..
You also need to tell him that you aren't his closet friend and if he is gonna be like that he needs to step on....
2007-02-28 19:11:32 · answer #7 · answered by cesare214 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him about it and tell him how it makes you feel!! Tell him that it hurts your feelings when he does it. He might not even notice. So just let him know.
2007-02-28 19:06:38 · answer #8 · answered by Wolf_28 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suggest finding a better friend. He apparently is not your friend.
2007-02-28 19:06:44 · answer #9 · answered by Clown Knows 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋