well what can i say- this year has been very s**t for me.
firstly I get dumped by my gf early feb- then find out I cant follow my dream of joining the RAF due to medical reasons.
what tops it off is i havent excatly got a family that likes me or vis versa.
My gf was the first person who truly cared about me thats why im finding it hard not being with her.
just duno what to do next with my life? at this point in time i can see myself being one of those good for nothings who dont do nothing with their lifes,yet I dream of doing so much and achieving so much- its hard when you have no one in the world who care about you and hopes you do well.
what am i ment to do? I feel like time is rushing by so fast yet I havent done anything with my life! I feel like i just need someone to talk to and someoen who will be there for me no matter what-i just feel so alone.
Is it jsut me who feels like this or are there others.
plus what am i ment to do about it? Im not happy at all
2007-02-28 10:56:46 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
wow, ive been there and i know its really hard to deal with. its not fair that the people that have responded to this have been so cruel so ill apologize for them. dont kill yourself... thats not right. i know you feel alone right now... but you could try a new hobby... or help out in the community... i dont know just try to focus on yourself and on working towards your goals... try not to worry about your ex... just worry about you right now... do things you enjoy, find some friends and get out and have some fun... i hope it turns out well for you, and if you ever need to talk ill listen
2007-02-28 11:11:22 · answer #1 · answered by Aura 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
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2007-02-28 11:48:43 · answer #2 · answered by Nat555 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-05 02:05:13 · answer #3 · answered by lemanski 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they say if things go wrong at the beginning of the year things will only get better and by the time the end of the year comes you'll look back and wonder what all the fuss was about. its a shame about the RAF but why don't you go to your local college and see if there are any courses that take your fancy, that's one way of meeting new people and maybe a new girlfriend good luck x
2007-02-28 11:08:04 · answer #4 · answered by angie 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Hunny the best thing for you to do is prove everyone wrong and show them your a great person and will go far in life.. You don't need a sh*tty family behind you.. You can have a great future and make it happen for you then a great girl will come in your life and tings will work out they always do..
2007-02-28 11:05:18 · answer #5 · answered by BLONDE BEAUTY 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
the past events is a doorway for you to do something with your life...these things happened for a reason...you only get out of life what you put into it....so instead of thinking negative, follow your dreams and do what ever you want to do...."come on then...chop chop....do something"....you have been given the opportunity to make something of yourself...nothing is holding you back any more....get positive and grab it by the bazonga's....you can do it, now stop sulking and start planning....
2007-02-28 13:34:47 · answer #6 · answered by Dazzlebox 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ok you need to be pro-active. Get out of this state of feeling. Start small. Start doings things you have always dreamed of doing. Be posistive. Can do. Say to yourself. I can....
2007-02-28 11:12:47 · answer #7 · answered by moojkc 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
man i know how you feel but dont worry its just a phase in your life it will soon pass and you will feel great again it just takes time why dont you do something else you enjoy for the time being, something that you always dreamed of?
2007-02-28 11:05:41 · answer #8 · answered by jinx 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i know what it is like. i know what it feels like to be an outsider. get out there (even with the pain), get an education, study judo, start a business.
what ever you do fall forward, not backward.
as for love, you will find it do not worry.
2007-02-28 13:10:54 · answer #9 · answered by rumuodani 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
this is why most people turn to drugs and alcohol.
its hard to find your nitch. you just need to go places of interest.
guys have so many things to choose from, like sports,clubs,hobby stores
that sell rc helicopters,ho scale trains etc. and you can meet girls anywhere.
only you can make yourself happy. keep looking !
2007-02-28 11:04:19 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋