i mean i have a couple friends and we always talk bad about eachother when there not there but are they realy your friends?
2007-02-28 10:46:21 · 16 answers · asked by kaykay8956 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
No they are being fake. It is okay to say "I don't like how Lilly dates so many guys it makes her look bad I am concerned she will get a bad rep" but you shouldn't say Lilly is such a whore she always with a guy being nasty. True friends are concerned about another friend they don't criticize them are ridicule them.
2007-02-28 10:51:26 · answer #1 · answered by JELLE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it were her alone talking bad about you would be one thing, but you admitting you talk bad about her...you tell me, are you her friend? I guess it depends on what you call a friend and who is a acquaintance. I have few True Friends who I can call any hour of the night for help and will show up with not so much of a why. They would just do it because they are my friend and I am theirs.
A easy test to see if someone is a friend . Start a conversation about you and see how long it takes them to start talking about themselves. If they keep switching the conversation to themselves you are just a sounding board.
2007-02-28 11:19:43 · answer #2 · answered by D'Artagnan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who doesn't talk about one another! Everyone has different opinions about different things and talking behind each other is just human. I have the same problem with my sisters, we are four and we always talk about each other when the other is not there, that doesn't mean we hate each other or that we don't want to be friends, my sisters are my very best friends even if they think I am too wild, and that I shouldn't do some things they don't like doing (like playing pool with guys ans riding a motorcycle, I am not a girly girl, but they can't change that!) They can only talk about it behind my back! And I don't really mind! They are entitled to their opinions about you, but that doesn't mean they don't love you, deep inside they worry about you. Now if they want to cause you problems......or take your boyfriend....that's something else!
2007-02-28 10:55:19 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree w/ everything everyone else just said, and will add this-
you all sound like a bunch of fake valley girls and one day, you're gonna have a earth shattering event in your life want a real friend there to talk to. But since you talk s*** about all you're "friends" no one's going to be there for you.
2007-02-28 10:56:13 · answer #4 · answered by britt g 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you feel like you have to talk bad about anyone???
Why not say good things about your friends? We all have our faults, and make mistakes.
It really only makes you look bad to point out other people's faults. It shows you have no integrity or loyalty.
If you truly have a bad opinion about those people you talk so badly about, dont surround yourself with them. Then you wont have any negative crap to talk about to anyone.
2007-02-28 10:54:07 · answer #5 · answered by Dawn H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say no. I mean, apart from an occasional disagreement when things might get ugly, a true friend would never talk bad about you.
2007-02-28 10:51:18 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That depends on how nasty they talked about you. It is human nature to do this , and sometimes it is done in fun. You will know if they start neglecting you and act weirder than they did before with you. If they don't, they are still your friends. Have you ever done that once or twice?
2007-02-28 10:51:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-02 03:22:16 · answer #8 · answered by catharine 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a friend cant be a friend if they are going to do that. In the future, you'll regret saying anything about them. Start actually being a friend if you want friends.
2007-02-28 10:51:41 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you have a couple back biters as friends ..
2007-02-28 10:52:14 · answer #10 · answered by ralphtheartist 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋