we used to be best friends. now she turn her back on me. like a couple of days ago. i was being nice to her, and she gave me the evil eyes. so i was just talking to her, and suddenly it turned into an argument, then when she came back, she told everyone in our class. so should i stay friends with her or enymy!!
2007-02-28 10:21:27 · 6 answers · asked by GuitarChik 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
just ignore her she isn't worth the time it takes to become an enemy
2007-02-28 10:24:55 · answer #1 · answered by reddemonwi55 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi there,
If you think this friend is truly worth it, then I would not speak with her until this issue is dealt with... If there should be a problem between the two of you, then it should be left that way. It is up to the two of you to take some time off and reflect on this...
First off, we need to address the problem, them when we do address it, we address the problem and not the person... Yes it is true what this person did bothered you, but it really is not the person the problem, IT IS WHAT THIS PERSON DID.
See if you start off by saying:
You know when you did this, it made me feel like... Your friend will automatically become on the defencive trying to justify herself instead of really attack the problem.. It would only make it worst..
If you think that it is worth one more try, then speak with her, but whatever you do, I would do so with no expectation to protect yourself from getting hurt again by this person.
If she should somehow disrespect you again in the future, back up your words and follow through... Then, I would stop being her friend.
2007-02-28 10:36:25 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My friend does that all the time. One minute its best friends and the next its enemy's. Doesn't feel stupid well anyway i told her that if you wanted to be my friend then ok. Tell her that friends don't call friends mean things and do mean stuff.I think if she wants to become your friend tell her fine but if she keeps acting that way you should just stay away from her.hope that works!!!!
2007-02-28 10:47:50 · answer #3 · answered by silver 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you put more effort into being a enemy then you do a friend she isn't worth a second for either
2007-02-28 10:26:32 · answer #4 · answered by Varacha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You'll learn your friends are your enemy....
2007-02-28 10:24:58 · answer #5 · answered by Im da Example 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
think more PRAY alot more and talk wit her about where things are going
2007-02-28 10:25:47 · answer #6 · answered by lexi b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋