Cehck this out here is my situation. I met this lady online a few weeks ago. We had this great connection from the start. I mean within the first week we had emailed each over three hundred times, and talked on the phone almost every day. Things were going great, talking about everything, and had so much in common that is was really exciting (you know when you finally feel you meet the right person that feeling) I mean I had shared things with that I had kept locked up for years but just seemed to want to come out when I was talking to her, I even shared that I suffered from bipolar disorder but was medicated and have lived a very normal life since being diagnosed and it didn't phaze her one bit and she told me she would help through it. Which gave me a great amount of confidence and hope that we could have a strong future together. But then this past Monday she asked for her space, and then today broke up with me, without any realy explanation. Told me she we didn't have a connection
2007-02-28 10:08:01 · 7 answers · asked by jesctdrum 2 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
and through it back into my that she wouldn't date anyone medicated, even though she know about this from the begining and like I said it didn't phaze her. I admit we took a little to fast and maybe I came on to strong and that might have scared her away but she did too, and I am and was more than willing to slow down because we did have this great connection. Another thing I was already planning moving before I met her but today she also asked me not to move to my new apartment since it was to close to her and it would make her unconfortable and if I Loved her I would reconsider that apartment and find another. I have already paid the deposit on the apartment and already planned on moving before I met her? Does that make sense plus who cares if I love her or not we are broken up. I need some sound advice since it sounds like she still has some feelings for me by saying that, but I aslo dont want to get hurt by being hopeful.
2007-02-28 10:16:22 · update #1
Okay, I think that I might be able to help u.
Recently I was dating a guy that I thought was AMAZING, and he had a few medicated disorders such as yourself, and I thought that he was great, pretty much like the way you feel about this girl. The thing was that he, without realizing it, was very clingy and though I was happy being with him, I was even more suicidal when I was with him (I suffer from a major depression problem) and though I didnt want to stopseeing him, i knew that for I had to end it for my own health. Though you spilled a lot of things to this girl, that doesnt mean that she told U everything. She may be suffering from some stuff 2 and there may b something that ou are doing that is making her worse off right now.
If u have any Q's feel free to email or IM me:
darknesslover_2009@yahoo.com
2007-02-28 10:22:40 · answer #1 · answered by darknesslover_2009 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may have felt a stronger connection than she did. Or she has been talking to someone else as well and feels a stronger connection to him. Look at it like this; better now than much later down the line. Try again with someone else and know that you can open up and it really is okay to do so.
2007-02-28 18:16:47 · answer #2 · answered by Darlin1_66 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOW! that blows! personally I am not to big on this online relationships, cause so many people online seam to lie about who thay are and what thay want. I really don't have a good answer for you. But try and chuck this one up to a lerning expairiants and don't give out to much of your personal information over the internet, okay. And good luck in the future finding some-one.
2007-02-28 18:20:15 · answer #3 · answered by denny 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget about her... This has continued to work extremely well for me. I have a short relationship with a woman and then never talk to her again, unless she makes an effort to do so. If you stop talking to her she will have to make the decision, this will tell you if she really dose want anything anymore. Believe me, no one, woman or man is worth being hurt over.
I recommend focusing on yourself, that is the only person that is guaranteed to be with you until death.
GOOD LUCK BUDDY!!
2007-02-28 18:28:05 · answer #4 · answered by Adam H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i guess that you might have opened a bit to much to her in a short amount of time...i understand that you felt a connection but sometimes you should share your most personal feelings with the one that you kno will be there for you for the rest of you life...you felt a connection not a attachment
2007-02-28 18:15:03 · answer #5 · answered by Brooke 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She knows someone who lives in the apartment complex and just don't want you to see them together. She don't want to hurt you knowing that you are sick. Rather she wants you to find another apartment so she can be with you and them.
2007-02-28 18:23:24 · answer #6 · answered by gettysdeemer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go 2 peekvid and watch the movie the secret
2007-02-28 18:47:50 · answer #7 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋