but you've noticed that they are gradually starting to talk to you, trying to make small talk and whatnot. Would you find it annoying when they talk to you - would it be a bother and would you just want them to stay quiet? What would be your impressions?
2007-02-28 09:59:47 · 13 answers · asked by Chelsea 2 in Social Science ➔ Sociology
No, I wouldn't get annoyed by them.
Most likely this person is shy and feels comfortable enough to open up and talk to you.
I'd encourage them to start talking....they may have alot to say and they could be more interesting than you think they might be.
2007-02-28 10:15:13 · answer #1 · answered by Lynnie 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I'm quiet and soft spoken. So it's yours and others' impression of the quiet/soft spoken person that interests me more !
I don't see why this person talking to you should annoy you any more than a more outgoing person talking to you.
It doesn't annoy me if someone's quiet at first and gradually starts to talk. I don't see why that should annoy anyone really.
It's natural to be more conversational once you've known someone longer.
2007-02-28 14:40:19 · answer #2 · answered by tomatoomelette 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it really depends.
i mean like if this person is like this random person you've never talk to before, then i'd be confused, && wish he or she would shut up. But if it's someone you admore or look up to or whatever id encourage the small talk && hope for the best. But most of the time its this weird awkward && dorky kinda kid. i think you should take this kid under your wing && show him the way. I think this would be a great opprotunity to help someone become a social butterfly, && possibly make a new friend. Unless this person is a physco freak, then just totally dis him/her && ignore him/her.
2007-02-28 10:08:40 · answer #3 · answered by This user has been deleted. 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I would think that this person is trying to approach me..You know,this kind of person you describe is a good but introvert person who fears rejection.These persons think that people will judge them and think the worse of them if they just be themselves and be outgoing and speak their minds.BUT THAT IS COMPLETELY UNTRUE!It s just what THEY think and they have to fight it!Other people don't think that way..You are NOT worse than every other is.You are NOT worse than any of those people who are outgoing..I'ts only what YOU and ONLY YOU think.
Anyway,me and every other person who is worth it,won't be bothered.On the contrary,he/she'll be happy that you've opened yourself to him/her.You mustn't stay quiet.You HAVE the right to speak because I'm sure you have many nice and valuable things to say and by not speaking and staying quiet you just deprive yourself from the world,of anything good you want to say and believe me..It would be a great lose.DONT BE AFFRAID.I know from personal experience that's difficult but I also know you can do it.Open yourself to the world!It's a short life to think what other people are going to say and think about you..
2007-02-28 10:27:58 · answer #4 · answered by MS.. 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It depends. If the person keeps on talking to you none stop id be wishing that thed stop talking but i do know a quite person who is gradually oping up to others
2007-03-01 00:24:29 · answer #5 · answered by glenn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as the person was not coming on to me, I don't think I'd have a problem with it. I would probably be glad that the person was trying to come out of their shell. I would be polite, as long as they were. I would just think that the person wanted to start making friends.
2007-02-28 14:42:13 · answer #6 · answered by Holiday Magic 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is how introverts operate. It takes time for them to warm up to another person. Yet, if I read between the lines, you may be an introvert as well. Just like anyone else, you have to choose whether or not to build a friendship or not.
2007-02-28 13:25:31 · answer #7 · answered by Bob T 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No, I think I would be happy they are starting to come out of their shell and I would befriend them. I would encourage them to open up. It sounds like this person is really working on their shyness and trying to get more involved. Be kind and helpful.
2007-02-28 22:52:48 · answer #8 · answered by vanhammer 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-26 20:55:51 · answer #9 · answered by stiefel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would find it a compliement that they are talking to me. It wouldn't bother me at all as long as they let me talk or ask me question's as well. (I dislike though's who hog the conversation the whole time, I think its rude and they are not a friend at all.)
2007-02-28 10:35:54 · answer #10 · answered by jrealitytv 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋