2007-02-28 09:53:29 · 9 answers · asked by ? 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I am not self-centered nor do i care about what other people think....I have just been isolated from others and trying to start a new life.
2007-02-28 10:34:18 · update #1
I am not self-centered nor do I care about what other people think about me. I have just been isolated and now i am able to start anew and was just wondering about gaining back my people skills.
2007-02-28 10:36:31 · update #2
Try to go out more and meet people. Try to upen up to them a bit...it won't hurt.
2007-02-28 10:19:30 · answer #1 · answered by Mrmojo6068 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I heard a therapist on TV that shy people are selfish, because they are always focused on what people will think of them if they do this or that. Put your focus on other people, not what their opinion of you will be. Ask people questions about themselves and take the focus off of yourself.
2007-02-28 18:22:53 · answer #2 · answered by Candi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be yourself and don't worry too much about what others think.
"Shyness has a strange element of narcissism, a belief that how we look, how we perform, is truly important to other people. "
Author: André Dubus
2007-02-28 18:21:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
find community.. take chances... develop your passions... follow your heart and trust in yourself and other people... it's not easy, I know... but it's worth it to come out of your shell... make a fool of yourself, it's okay... work towards pleasing yourself, not others... and acknowledge your shyness.. it can be a very nice quality in people...
2007-03-04 13:47:57 · answer #4 · answered by tomi27410 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think "systematic desensitization" (which you can google) is the way to go here.
Or you could just get loaded. (kidding).
2007-02-28 19:20:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can start by maing small talk with some one . once you feel confortable then take it from there. eventually you will be confortable. trust me i have been there. i hope this helps....
2007-02-28 20:34:38 · answer #6 · answered by ladyjamie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take Prozac. It will help you overcome your shyness. Drugs cure just about everything these days, if you'll let them.
2007-02-28 18:31:20 · answer #7 · answered by good_old_hank 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋