when me and my b/f have sex he can never stay hard long enough... and we are always having to stop and do something else... is this normal? is there a way to prevent it or something to do to stay hard Longer! ????
2007-02-28 09:50:01 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Men's Health
u didnt mention the age, but i assume he is a teenager or at least young.
It can be like that because he is new in sex and he gets nervous, thats why he loses his erection. Specially since it used to happen to him, whenever he has sex, he starts thinking negatively as if he is waiting for it to happen, thats the main reason for it.
How to prevent it?
There is a way for it :) he doesnt need to use pills
first of all, tell him that u dont care if he loses erection and show urself very satisfied with his stuff and the way it is. that way he will feel a loooooooooot better and will gain back his confidence little by little.
and also try to have sex with him very regularly with the same behaviour to give him a good confidence exercise. I am sure that he will be good in about 1 month (assuming having sex like 3 times a week)
good luck..
2007-02-28 16:19:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
20% psychological and 20% physical? And 60% what? loser. It could be that you're shy, or really wanting to do a good job and getting nervous. You obviously don't have anything wrong, or you wouldn't get hard to start with. Of course, the more pissed off/worried you get about it, the more likely it is to happen. What you may want to try is not having sex with the woman at first. Try masturbating with her in the room (she can do it as well). Then next time have her masturbate you. Then try oral.. etc. You'll gradually get more comfortable, and it won't be an issue at all.
2016-03-16 02:13:32 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
staying erect sex
2016-02-01 03:00:08 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Although not normal it is common, its called Erectile dysfunction and besides excersising it and perhaps seeing a therapist. Your best bet that I am aware of is Cialis, its designed for this, buy a small pack and give it a try.
here is a link to the store I use.
http://www.orderdrugsfromhome.com/cialis.php
2007-02-28 15:16:23 · answer #4 · answered by Jason F 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not giving him enough action. Or maybe he smoked too much weed as a teenager.
2007-02-28 14:07:07 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes a guy would have a guilt complex, maybe he's cheating on you
2007-02-28 12:12:06 · answer #6 · answered by Goldfish 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah maybe you should start wearing a paper bag over your head... that should do the trick!
2007-03-01 06:18:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
or maybe he is going to have premature ejaculation problem.
2007-02-28 15:04:29 · answer #8 · answered by inane person 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋