They aren't exactly sexual though. like last night i dreamed that i was with my friend from high school and we were a couple. i dreamed we were sitting in this huge mall and just hugging and kissing. i usually get these very warm fuzzy feelings when i have such dreams. please, does this mean I'm gay?I feel so confused and scared, could it be just a phase? I'm a 20 yr old guy, and I've been single for over a year now. whats wrong with me?
2007-02-28 09:43:29 · 10 answers · asked by trevir287 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
First of all, there's nothing wrong with you.
Secondly, you might be gay. You also might not.
Take some time, relax, and perhaps learn about gay life and
its ins and outs, up and downs.
If if doesn't feel right you'll know, and if it feels right you will
recognize that also.
Being gay is not a bad thing any more than being "strait" is.
You are probably just missing the intimacy you had in your
previous relationship; the subconscious likes to play out
our desires/frustrations in dreams sometimes.
But more important than whether you are gay or not is:
Can you love yourself as you are? Can you love others
and be supportive, whether they are gay or not?
Don't rush into anything. Give yourwself a year or two to experiment (if you wish) and as I said learn about gay life and lifestyles.
There is nothing wrong with being gay. There is nothing wrong
with being strait. You might even be bi. But most important:
be human and "of love" with everyone, as much a you can.
Radiate love and happiness and the right guy or girl will find you,
and over time all your questions and fears will be resolved.
2007-03-01 16:26:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-09-30 00:51:39 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are what you are, and like who you like, the way you like them. There's nothing to be scared of. The warm fuzzies suggest that you probably are gay, which is going to take some adjusting. Don't worry about the label, just go with your feelings.
2007-02-28 10:45:53 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesnt mean you're gay. Men are supposed to have close relatinships with other men, It is possible that you're really wanting a close friendship right now. I think often men think of intamacy in terms of sex. It could be that your desires for a close connection with another guy are comming out in the form of sexualized dreams. I dont think it's too much to worry about.
take care bro
2007-02-28 10:09:49 · answer #4 · answered by John 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing is wrong with you. Only you seem to be scared of being gay, while you've such preferences right in your thoughts and you surely long to be one.
2007-02-28 10:09:19 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, even if you like anal stimulation, it doesn't mean your gay. (I read yr past Questions)
Having said that, if you are gay, because you actually are attracted to guys mentally, and sexually, it's no big deal. There's nothing wrong with you.
So enjoy your fuzzy feelings and stop being scared.
2007-02-28 10:29:18 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
What kind of dreams do you have in between every other day? Straight ones? Dreams are dreams, nothing more, nothing less.
2007-02-28 20:18:21 · answer #7 · answered by charliecizarny 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely nothing is wrong with you.
2007-02-28 10:02:40 · answer #8 · answered by juniorblue2004 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you re gay deal with it
2007-02-28 10:04:13 · answer #9 · answered by mike 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
NOTHING....just pray about it!!
2007-03-01 13:15:33 · answer #10 · answered by ..... 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋