My mother is going to have major surgery, my sister is going on vaycay she wants her to take care of children?

Question

My mom is going to have major surgery, and at the same time my sister to going to Costa Rica! My sister is a good for nothing person and hardly takes care of her children now. She has been with her boyfriend for only 6 months and he doesn't even have a job to help play for the trip! My mother is outraged. My mom is going to be heavily medicated (they are going through her skull) I refuse to take care of her kids (I have two of my own) While she lives her life without her own two children. I will have to take care of my mom (because my Dad will be driving over the road).I refuse to take care of my two children, her two children and my mom. What should I say. She says she doesn't want to bring her children. I say then you can't go and she blows up! What kind of person does this to the sick/elderly? My mom is 60 and she takes medication for high blood pressure, she is partially deaf, and many other problems. I don't care if my sister and I have bad blood. What can I say to make her think?

My sister lives rent free with my mom, and doesn't pay anything, she calls her horrible names! Since my mom is partially deaf, I hear my sister call her bad names behind her back, My sister threatens my mom that she'll never see the children again. Why is she like this?

Answer 1

Tell your sister if she leaves when she comes back the locks will be changed and your going to call child serves about her leaving her kids. Or just ask her to pay rent if she can go on vacation and not have a job. Good luck
PS your shouldnt have to take care of 4 kid and your mom