MY boyfriend got me pregnat and now i have to move out before my mom finds out any advise
2007-02-28 09:26:41 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
You need to confide in your mom. If she loves you she will stand by you. You need to decide wheather you want to keep the baby or give it up for adoption. In the future please try and remenber to use Birthcontrol.
2007-02-28 09:31:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your boyfriend did not "get you pregnant." The two of you got pregnant together.
Tell your Mom. She's probably smarter than both of you put together. if you are scared to tell your Mom because she may harm you in some way - then tell a counselor at school.
The teenage years are not years when you are prepared to deal with pregnancy on your own.
You have choices to make now. You can have the baby and raise it. (How will you support a child - and yourself?) You can have the baby and give it up for adoption. Or - you can have an abortion.
Kind of late to say this now - but EVERYBODY who has unprotected pre-marital sex should be thinking about what they'll do if they get pregnant. Your choices are raise a child, give a baby away or kill a baby.
I hope you are able to do the SMART thing from this point forward.
If you keep the child - make sure your boyfriend is made financially responsible. Even if he is not old enough to get a real job - he can go out and shovel snow or mow lawns - and make enough money for diapers and such.
2007-02-28 09:38:06 · answer #2 · answered by liddabet 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would definitely talk to your mom. Mom's can be more understanding they teens think. My daughter opted to run and when things got to overwhelming she then turned to me. I was hurt that she thought I would be a _itch, I wish she would had come to right from the start I could have done things that would have help from the start. By her running it only added more problems to the situation. I can not say I wasn't mad but mad doesn't feel quite like the right word. I was more like sad I had such high hopes for her but now with time I a new set of hopes for her and I am still proud of her and love her. Life will always toss us a few curves it is how we handle the curves that keeps us on the road. If you take time to ease into the curve and keep your eyes on the road you will do just fine. Go speeding into them with rapid moves will only run you off the road and into a ditch. It is hard and each day will bring new challenges mom can help if you give her the chance. You were adult enough to create this life now continue to be that adult and do the right thing. Running away will not being pregnant any easier and it will only hurt your mom. You will need her. I still see my daughter as my little girl and it is hard to remember she isn't so little any more . We still have our fights but in the long run I think she is glad I am here to help.
2007-02-28 10:37:27 · answer #3 · answered by nancy g 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, you need to take responsibility for your part in YOUR getting pregnant. Your boyfriend did not do it alone. He needs to do the same. Then, together, you need to tell your parents then his. Only then can you all come together to make the decisions that will be best for your child.
Don't runaway! That will only drastically compound the problem! Have faith in your parents/mom. If she proves to be unworthy of that faith then look to your boyfriend's parents. If they prove the same, then look to an aunt/uncle/grandparent. Keep looking until you find someone you can trust and that will help you versus blame you.
God Bless!!!
2007-02-28 09:36:07 · answer #4 · answered by Maxbps 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there will be a lot of anger at first but usually parents come to except it and eventually like the idea of being a grandparents. It's gonna be a tough road but you destination will be sweet. Tell her and don't let a child come into this world with so much anger around. It didn't ask to be here after all. Good luck
2007-02-28 09:31:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Why do you have to move out? You need to talk with your mom honestly and openly. If you think she will not take the news well (like harm herself or you in some way) then have a relative you can trust be there with you.
It will be difficult but its something you really need to do.
Good luck
2007-02-28 11:58:30 · answer #6 · answered by sweetie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It takes two to tango. You should have thought about that before you had sex without birth control.
But since it is too late make the best of it. How do you know you have to move out? She may be so mad at first but then she might help you out with the mistake you help create. Best Wishes!
2007-02-28 09:33:11 · answer #7 · answered by ஐ♥Julian'sMommy♥ஐ 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yea stay in school.... (pregnat+ pregnant).... Tell your mom it will be way easier then trying to find a place to live and a job and schooling etc.
2007-02-28 09:30:22 · answer #8 · answered by Alexis221 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
each now and then that is because their fool mum and dad kick them out via being pregnant. In different circumstances they make the youngster sense so terrible for procuring pregnant that they sense their purely decision is to run away. then you fairly have those that come from terrible homestead circumstances the position they merely are not chance-free or satisfied so they run away. those seem the most basic motives.
2016-10-17 09:32:00 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should jus tell your mom instead of moving out. i means there is no point of putting you or the baby at a risk of not having everything you will need jus bcuz you dont want 2 tell your mom. she will probaly b disappointed but she is a mom and will help
2007-03-01 03:01:50 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋