k, so far my friends dont like each other n well im cana stuck in the middle, help. i Dont want to b the 1 that ends up in the middle but i dont know what i can do, HELP!
2007-02-28 09:15:27 · 11 answers · asked by naaaty! 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Let them don't like each other. There's no rule that says everybody's friends have to be friends with everybody else. If they try to draw you into any bickering, try to make you take sides, just say, "Hey, this is between you guys. I'm just here to be a good friend to all of you."
If both sides want to "possess" you, they can't. Nobody owns you. If you want to go out with whomever asks you out first, go ahead. If the other side complains, just say, "Oh, sorry, it sounded like fun. What can you and I do together next week?"
If anybody decides they don't want to be your friend anymore because you like the "wrong" people, well, no great loss. They obviously don't understand what real friendship is.
2007-02-28 09:24:21 · answer #1 · answered by katbyrd41 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Real friends don't take sides . You are already in a good track by being fair with all of your friends. I would suggest you can either find ways to patch things up with the warring parties or you can just tell them how you feel . Tell them you can't take this anymore and if they won't make up they will lose you as well. True friends stand up for each other no matter what!
2007-02-28 17:20:41 · answer #2 · answered by bittersweetlove21 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give your friends a couple of days to chill, do things with them separately at first then do an activity where they will have 2 work 2gether, ya know? That way they will actually get 2 know each other without pre-judging.... good luck
2007-02-28 17:20:32 · answer #3 · answered by watergoddess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when me and my friends get in a fight i dont say anything until i no BOTH sides of the story then you can but in but b4 you do make sure you say im not in anyway taking sidesw this is just what i think and plz dont get mad okay.. Its always really hard when a couple people in a clique cuz the other people aways gat effected!!!good luck
2007-02-28 17:19:38 · answer #4 · answered by sarah l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell both of them that you aren't going to choose any side and tell them that you support both of them. Try not to make big fuss about it because I was in that situation and my two friends ended up ditching me and they are now best friends. It sucked so hopefully you don't get it like i did. Much luck.
2007-02-28 17:22:53 · answer #5 · answered by Summer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ahh Ive been in the situation tooo many times all you can do is just hang out with them separately unless they are willing to just deal with each other for the sake of your friendship and hang out as a group.but more often then not you have stubborn friends and wont budge for any one... well good luck to ya
2007-02-28 17:20:39 · answer #6 · answered by shauna g 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
plan a sleepover at ur place with lots of good food ,games and gossip,nothin better than a sleepover 2 get pals stick up with each other.
2007-02-28 17:19:45 · answer #7 · answered by serena 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must choose, and choose wisely which friend you will want to keep. Then after making this wise decision, you must 'dump' the other friend.
2007-02-28 17:18:47 · answer #8 · answered by Daniel-san 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just dont get involved with their dum fight and watever u do...
dont let either of them ruin yer friendship with the other one
good luck chica!
2007-02-28 17:19:31 · answer #9 · answered by ROCKSTAR 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not really anything you can do about that. Stop talking to both. It's not fair for you to choose.
2007-02-28 17:18:18 · answer #10 · answered by woman01234 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋