I want to start up the affair again, but I hurt him tremendously by talking with his wife. We are not bad people just unhappy in our marriages but due to children and finances are unable to get a divorce.
2007-02-28 09:11:07 · 10 answers · asked by Samantha 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Do not contact him again to start up an affair. He is probably dealing with his wife right now and doesn't need you to screw it up even more. He may not even want anything to do with you now since you let his secret out. He'll be afraid you will do it again.
There is no excuse for cheating and you shouldn't make excuses to stay in a marriage.
2007-02-28 09:20:48 · answer #1 · answered by blue eyes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say no, the whole thing has hell written all over, and what goes around comes around keeps coming to mind, and really do you want to be involved with a cheater openly knowing and you yourself reallly wouldnt want your husband to cheat on you would you? I believe if you dont stick to your original good idea of stopping it one day when you thinks things are wonderful and turned arounds bamm! it'll be happening to you, so watch it ok, good luck Kim
2007-02-28 09:17:47 · answer #2 · answered by KIMBUR 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
children and finances are not a good reason to stay married
you should stay with your husband because you love him
if you dont' love your husband then do him a favour and get a divorce or just get seperated..
its not to your husband and it is not fair to the children..
2007-02-28 09:17:19 · answer #3 · answered by steph 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is adultery and it is wrong. No matter the reason. You are both taken and you should not even consider ever talking to that man again. You made a vow to your husband. stick to it.
2007-02-28 09:18:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually, you ARE bad people. You are especially evil for talking to his wife and then wanting to have another affair with him.
Yes, you should contact him.
2007-02-28 09:18:24 · answer #5 · answered by Martin Pedersen 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all why did you talk to his wife??? and second get a divorce!
2007-02-28 12:52:59 · answer #6 · answered by loulou 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No! If you are not going to divorce then be faithful to your husband. And, if you can't be faithful don't mess with a married guy.
2007-02-28 09:15:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i had one last 7 years old lady of his never new
2007-02-28 12:06:10 · answer #8 · answered by mountainchowpurple 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YIKES! I am surprised the wife didn't break your legs!
2007-02-28 09:17:14 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
WHY WOULD YOU EVER TALK TO HIS WIFE???!!!!! THAT WAS STUPID!!! HE MAY NOT TRUST YOU AGAIN TO GET INVOLVED WITH HIM. AND I WOULDN'T BLAME HIM.
2007-02-28 09:35:39 · answer #10 · answered by sweetbabykitty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋