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take an english class. then talk to your dad.

2007-02-28 09:05:34 · answer #1 · answered by Get a life 3 · 2 0

I'm not sure from your question what your whole situation is. Are your mom and dad together? If so, she may already have told him. Whether or not they're together, you probably already have an idea how he'll take the news. For some people, safety might be an issue. Face to face is most honest, but if you have any fear that he may get violent, then consider telling him by phone, or having someone else with you (like your partner, or your mom, or a sister or brother).
Many (maybe even most) parents will get a little bent out of shape at first, but then they'll come around eventually.
As another person said here, get to a doctor, and take care of your health. That's especially important if you're a teen. Sleep and eat well to keep yourself and the baby healthy.
I wish you much good luck and happiness, and a peaceful family situation as you go through this.

2007-02-28 17:15:03 · answer #2 · answered by jacketprof 2 · 1 0

Why don't you convince your boyfriend to give your dad a call.
Let him break the news to Dad, saying that he was the one to get you pregnant and that he will take full responsibility for you and support of the child.
Look, when you tell Dad, don't you think he is going to ask who the boy is. This way your boyfriend is going to get some respect and between the two of you clean up the act. Otherwise dad will resent this whole incident for the rest of his life and you all will have to live with it.
BTW do not drop out of school either, let mom or grandma be your baby sitter while you finish school. . . .looks like you need to get ready for supporting a family.

2007-02-28 17:30:05 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Wait for the news to sink in.
Tell your dad the same way you told your mom.

Expect to be shouted at and yelled at, but in the end, your family will come through for you and be the best support system you could hope for.

EDIT: I'm not surprised you kind of floored your mom with this one, you asked a question 5 hours ago about how to let her know you have a boyfriend...so she didn't even know you were seeing anyone, let alone sleeping with him!

You need to give her time!

2007-02-28 17:05:20 · answer #4 · answered by ♥Pamela♥ 7 · 0 0

Don,t panic, tell your Dad calmly, your Mum was probably in shock. Its hard to take in when a child makes this kind of confession. If neither support you go to another responsible adult to talk through your options. Doctor, Practice nurse, Family Planning clinic,relative. You don,t mention your age if you are still at school approach a member of staff. Good Luck.

2007-02-28 17:11:07 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

I imagine your Ma done already told your Pa.
U dont do nothing but get your Ma to take u to the local
doc or health department for blood tests to make sure u
are healthy and get u some vitamins and prenatal care.

2007-02-28 17:07:13 · answer #6 · answered by sunflare63 7 · 1 0

well how old are you? maybe your mom thinks that you are not ready maybe your dad might react the same way just hope you mom didn't tell him for you parents do that when they don't like something just tell him and wait for the flames because if your mom is mad then your dad might be too

2007-02-28 17:07:38 · answer #7 · answered by ? 6 · 0 0

Just tell him. I mean it will be difficult but at least u will have some peace of mind getting it off your chest. Good Luck

2007-02-28 17:04:34 · answer #8 · answered by Who Me? 4 · 0 0

If your worried about telling your dad that your pregnant, ask yourself why are even afraid? since your mom didnt do anything, at least she knows so if something happens she will already know that you are pregnant. stay on the bright side, at least one parent knows

2007-02-28 17:06:31 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Honesty is always the best policy. Your dad may be mad at first but he will respect you more later for being up front with him.

2007-02-28 17:07:54 · answer #10 · answered by Jo Marie 2 · 0 0

i told both of my parents that i was pregnant...and to my surprise they took it very well...i was so happy to see that they didn't go wacko on me or anything so i would suggest telling your father as well...good luck and i hope everything turns out the way you hope....if it helps maybe you should cry lol....i did that a little bit and they felt compassion for me...try it...

2007-02-28 17:04:19 · answer #11 · answered by tinkerbell13 3 · 1 1

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