does love really finish after marriage?? and why??
2007-02-28 08:56:03 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Love DOES NOT finish after marriage thank you. And the biggest side effect of love is children.
2007-02-28 08:58:20 · answer #1 · answered by kenniemcooper 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do you mean does love end? NO! Love after marriage changes, yes, but everything changes. Love and marriage are a journey, not an object. It's not something you get or have taken away. It's a process you nurture. The more work a couple puts into it, the more they get out of it, married or not. Marriage is a commitment to the journey and the person, that helps motivate when times get tough. The only way love ends, is when couples give up on it. That has nothing to do with marriage.
2007-02-28 09:07:57 · answer #2 · answered by Irish 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The biggest side effect of love is all the unwanted babies born. You can marry and not have an effect on society, but every unwanted baby born will have an effect in the long run.
Love at marriage is like a bonfire, full of heat and passion. But as time grows on the fire dies to embers and it is the embers of love that people forget to feed with gifts of kindness, a touch, to briefly bring the embers aglow till they again need to be rekindled. Most people think that the embers will last forever but die if you never feed them.
2007-02-28 09:01:52 · answer #3 · answered by Big C 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No way! Love should begin at marriage!
I've been told when you've just met someone your brain releases happy hormones, that's why you're excited about meeting them etc, but after a while you stop releasing the chemicals and I guess that's what makes people feel like thy're not in love anymore!
2007-02-28 08:59:48 · answer #4 · answered by schmeckschmack 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Wow....I am a mom myself but all thse women saying babies are the side effect of love...like that is somehow the ULTIMATE? Are you kidding me? What about couple that decide NOT to have kids? Or can't???? Geez.......the ultimate of love is a true, lifelong journey ALREADY traveled, not "well we've been married for 5 years blah blah blah"....of fidelity, honesty, respect and devotion in marriage.
2007-02-28 09:43:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my experience love grows after marriage.
2007-02-28 09:00:26 · answer #6 · answered by JillPinky 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love onlyfinishes after you marry when you find you don't actually loke the person you married and you get divorced. It could be argued that divorce is the biggest side effect of love as so many folk divorce.
2007-02-28 08:59:56 · answer #7 · answered by Closed Down 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
love keeps growing after marriage,if you have found the right person and are willing to commit to that person,its the best thing on earth and love gets better and stronger
2007-02-28 09:01:11 · answer #8 · answered by san_ann68 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no it doesn't. The biggest and best side effect of love is the rest of your life and living it out with your partner, knowing whom it is that you want.
2007-02-28 09:33:45 · answer #9 · answered by yep-it-is-me 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it depends on the people, you have to keep doing new and different things, if it is something that you both want, and you have made the decision to be together as long as you live, then why not, i have been with my wife for 10 years now, only married for one, i would not change anything about her or our relationship.
It a partnership and if that is what you want, do it, dont let things go stale, it is to easy to sit back and let things slide.
Good luck to you both
2007-02-28 09:02:19 · answer #10 · answered by brommas 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋