2007-02-28 08:43:41 · 15 answers · asked by mack9930317 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Well, if I wanted to marry and have children, no. If I didn't want to have children- or just adopt, yes. I would never have sex with this person, so unless we wanted to adopt, then I couldn't marry this person. Also, both have to agree that you all would never have sex. I think to have sex with this person would be putting yourself at risk and not fair to your family. It is sad, but you have to face reality. Keep this person as a friend regardless. They need someone they care about in their life.
2007-02-28 09:57:07 · answer #1 · answered by Jaedyn=God has heard 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if they told you upfront dont let your fear get in the way of things. If you really love someone then you need to realize sex is not the basis of a relationship, however if you think that later if you may want to get maried, not having biological children might bother you? or never having sex without a condom might also bother you (not to mention that is not 100% protection against HIV)? Also ask yourself...did they say aids of HIV? aids is the terminal stage of Human Immuno Deficiency and so someone with aids tyically does not have a very long life expectantcy. There is no way to explain to someone that you fears are more important to you than your love, without hurting their feelings but you need to be honest. Tell them you are scared. Talk to a doctor about what risks there are in being with an infected person. If you are verry serious at this point maybe you can look past these things but if it is early on and you are not in love I would personally save yourself from the inevitable heart brake and calmly and nicely break it off. Good luck, and im sorry.
2007-02-28 09:50:45 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
That would depend on a couple of things. First of all, if I was with the person for a while and they just found out, I would stay with them, as long as they were upfront with me as soon as they knew. If I was with them for a long time and they knew about it the whole time and just told me, I would not stay with them, mainly because of the honesty thing.
2007-02-28 09:08:04 · answer #3 · answered by queenB 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How much do you love the person? Condoms still do the trick and it shouldn't be a big risk if the person is on anti viral medications.
2007-03-08 06:44:41 · answer #4 · answered by Marius , II 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
AIDS, is a mangeable disease and no longer a life sentence. I already have one person in my life who is HIV positive and I know the effect of people withdrawing can have.
If my partner was HIV positive, I would certainly stay in the relationship.
2007-03-08 00:48:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Aids is pretty much a death sentence. Is that the way you want to roll the dice
2007-03-08 08:39:26 · answer #6 · answered by Simon M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would depend on my depth of love for that person. And also how they got it.. For instance it is different from a blood transfusion to a junkie..
2007-03-07 13:06:14 · answer #7 · answered by *G* 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes. If we had already had sex, and he didn't tell me, hell no. No man who lies is worth it. But if you love each other and you want to be together, you can have a meaningful relationship, whether you have sex or not.
2007-03-07 08:00:42 · answer #8 · answered by BamaBelle810 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
no, I would never die a painful death like that. If we were already married and together for awhile, I would live with it, but if just dating you tell them you just can't live that life. They should understand
2007-02-28 09:52:16 · answer #9 · answered by fourcheeks4 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, because I love them, it is as simple as that.
2007-03-07 20:32:22 · answer #10 · answered by Bethy4 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋