she and i were drinking and her boyfriend was too, but he thought we were discusting to to do such a thing she and i have always been that way and now that she has a new man he does'nt want to understand our drunkin friendship, he's in his 40's and she is my age 30,she and i think he is jelous of us, but why and you guys should know that i am a married woman and my husband knows our friendship, we've been friend for 7 years and, i understand that he isn't used to this situation, so she and i are willing to give up our crazy ways to make him happy!
2007-02-28 08:42:28 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
she and i are only friends, i am married she has a new man, he has a problem when we drink together,my husband knows how we are, and knows that i am just crazy at heart! i am not gay i love men..
2007-02-28 09:06:11 · update #1
So - you're married, she has a boyfriend - but you both regularly get drunk and make out with each other. Correct?
Stop being an idiot. Whether it's just for fun, or for show/to get attention, or if there's romantic feelings between you two - doesn't matter. You are both in relationships and there is no reason for you to be fooling around with each other.
The fact that you're both the same sex doesn't make a lick of difference. It'd be the same if you got drunk and kissed a male friend. You're both cheating on your partners, and acting like whores. Grow a brain, a sense of morality, and keep your hands off each other.
2007-02-28 09:18:29 · answer #1 · answered by Elly M 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
If you guys are happy doing this, then don't stop for a man. Most guys are all about 2 women, it probably just freaked him out. Is it really going to make the both you and your friend truely happy to give that up.
Do what makes you both happy!
2007-02-28 16:47:59 · answer #2 · answered by yep-it-is-me 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
your relationship w/ her is odd but some friends are just that close i guess. Maybe stop kissing her, that could fix the situation. he doesn't understand therefore doesn't like it. hang out and things like that, just maybe try doing some things that dont make her husband feel weird.
2007-02-28 16:47:05 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think I understand your situation. She is just a friend and your husband doesn't understand that. What is acceptable for two women friends to do isn't acceptable for two male friends to do.
2007-02-28 16:48:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
She should totally get a new boyfriend that understands because, well, two chicks kissing is HOT lol
2007-02-28 16:46:27 · answer #5 · answered by blamb! 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't ler her change herself because of some guy, if your husband understands, then why won't this guy, seriosly just get over it
2007-02-28 17:02:13 · answer #6 · answered by bluemoon 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I see a situation, but not a question.
2007-02-28 16:46:20 · answer #7 · answered by ang_phx 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Forget the man. You two keep making out. I love you.
2007-02-28 16:45:14 · answer #8 · answered by KC Slim 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Do whatever trips your trigger... you obviosly have tendancies why continue to hide them
2007-02-28 16:47:46 · answer #9 · answered by happyblonde 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You and your friend should date. It's been said that what you do when you're drunk is what you wish you could do sober.
2007-02-28 16:46:43 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋