What do I do?

Question

I can't do this anymore. I love this guy I've known for years. Its a complicated relationship- we used 2 fight alot but we became friends and now he's 1 of the only people I can count on. He has no idea how I feel and I can't tell him. He has a gf- been 2gether for 2 months now. If you knew our relationship you'd know y I can't tell him. But he keeps contacting me and BLATANTLY flirting with me. He also asks if I've been seein n e 1 and asks what qualities about him I like and hints that he wants 2 hang out. But he wont just ask me. And I don't think I want him 2. I want him 2 leave me alone and let me forget about him. I'm sick of this. I'm so sick of comparing every other guy 2 him and thinking about him 24/7. Sometimes we won't talk for weeks and it'll start to get better- then he contacts me again. I don't know what 2 do- I can't tell him to leave me alone because he'll want 2 know why and I can't have that conversation. And we're not teenagers- Im 22 and he's 23. I dunno what 2 do

Answer 1

You do need to make a clean break if this is torturing you that much. I usely don't like to lie to anyone, but perhaps you can think of a reason to tell him you can't talk to him anymore. It really sounds like you love this guy, maybe if you tell him how you feel he might be more understanding then you think. If not he may stop calling you, which sounds okay to you as well. You have known him for years and he has only been with her two months. Take the chance!

Answer 2

ok first of all...never be nervous and secnd of all if he is FIRTLING with u then u migh have a chance he actually likes u or is messing around with u...just be calm and when u get the guts to tell him how u feel...then start a conversation and gently talk him into it.