my aunt and her boyfriend have been together for 3 years. he has a son. we are together all the time. my family says we act like we are married. i do like him. i have alot of feelings for him. is that wrong?
2007-02-28 08:30:46 · 19 answers · asked by scooby91099 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
no not at all..that's cute..it's not like you're blood related
2007-02-28 08:33:03 · answer #1 · answered by BLEHH 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it is becuase he is not your cousin. Have you talked to him about your feelings??? Do you think he feels the same for you? I think that if you both like each other you can talk to your aunt and see what she thinks. Another very important thing is that you need to be careful because if you later decide to date him and then break up please make sure this doen't affect the relationships with your aunt or other family members. Remember that now he is kinda part of the family and for reuniouns you will have to see him or hear about him. Good luck!
2007-02-28 08:44:05 · answer #2 · answered by ITALY06 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. You aren't related by blood. If you like him, enjoy it. It may seem kind of weird because he is your aunt's boyfriend, but think of it like this. Sisters have dated their other sister's boyfriend's brothers (tongue twister...I know), and it isn't like they are doing anything wrong.
He has come into your life in this way. He may become your cousin by marriage one day, and he may not. Even if he does...it wont matter. The only hard thing would be if you two did hook up and become a couple and then broke up, because he would still be around because of his dad.
Good luck.
2007-02-28 08:39:08 · answer #3 · answered by kalea_kane 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not blood kin so as long as your aunt doesn't mind then go for it. Not a thing wrong with it.
2007-02-28 08:34:34 · answer #4 · answered by Im Listening 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-09-30 00:48:13 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think this is wrong, you are not blood related, and have not grown up as family. i think it's totally fine for you to pursue this if you want... your family will learn to understand.
2007-02-28 08:34:44 · answer #6 · answered by megs1bq 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is fine. There is no blood line there so go for it. He may feel the same way.
2007-02-28 08:38:22 · answer #7 · answered by DESTINY 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No blood relation. Your fine.
2007-02-28 08:42:07 · answer #8 · answered by SecretFriend 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as you are not related to him by blood, then it is not wrong.
2007-02-28 08:33:23 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
That's perfectly fine!! There's no relation whatsoever.. I say go for it!!
2007-02-28 13:54:30 · answer #10 · answered by raven975 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kinda sorta. If they get married he would be like your cousin.
2007-02-28 08:34:17 · answer #11 · answered by Janine 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋