Why is it that when girls kiss it's supposed to be hot, but when guys kiss it's supposed to be disgusting?
2007-02-28 08:13:22 · 7 answers · asked by jedilounge1 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Both are pretty hot.
2007-02-28 08:34:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Personally, I think both are hot.
I've heard a theory that men like the girls-kissing thing (stay with me here) partially because of instinct.
The more women that a man sleeps with, the more chance he will have of contributing to the gene pool. If he sees two women kissing, a primal signal goes off in his mind (hey, we're getting ready to mate here!). Hence the desire for multiple girls at a time...
On the flip side, women are prone to monogamy because the more she sleeps with that man, the more likely it will be that she will carry a child.
I don't really know if I subscribe to that theory... and I'm lesbian...
But it kinda makes sense.
And seeing two men kiss, to another man, can be threatening. The prospect of male gay sex is so taboo in a lot of the American culture, that men are taught all their lives to shun it and be disgusted by it. And women, for that matter. I went to a really strict Christian school til high school, and the only talk about homosexuality was that it was disgusting and detestable and unnatural.
Go figure.
2007-02-28 10:23:59 · answer #2 · answered by Eve 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just a matter of familiarity, I think. Gals have been kissing in public for ages, so everyone is used to seeing it. They're not used to seeing guys kissing. I like kissing hot young guys, but I myself am turned off by seeing other guys kissing, just because I'm not used to seeing others doing it.
2007-02-28 08:50:37 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to look at where the answer is coming from. About 90% of the male heterosexual population worldwide feels excited at the site of two women kissing because it's viewed as non-threatening as well as very sexual! On the flip side of the coin, those same people seeing two men kissing as very gross and even(although I wish you good fortune to get them to admit it) threatening to them! The short and non-P.C. answer would be because it's two gals, and that's always hot!!!
2007-02-28 08:26:31 · answer #4 · answered by mangamaniaciam 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't find it disgusting so it isn't everyone who thinks that way.
2007-02-28 08:19:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
They are both disgusting. I would change my friends if I were you
2007-02-28 08:26:20 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
I think it depends on which sex you ask....
2007-02-28 08:21:06 · answer #7 · answered by jesreekakorb 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋