Need Help on comeing out?

Question

i know.. im gay but i keep saying im not.. like look up porn with girls. but i would be look at the Guy more! how do i tell me self im gay was kinda out beofore. but.. went back. few steps...Help me plez.. is it ok to be gay? and cant look at any thing gay.. i like it but a vice im me head like everone will hate u

Answer 1

You sound confused to me, although I may not be reading the question right... if you know you're gay then yes it's okay to be gay. In fact... no one cares anymore... and the people who do are generally the kind of people no one likes =/

Answer 2

Porn is porn, it's supposed to turn you on, all kinds of it, gals, guys, some of each. If you'd rather look at the guys, then that suggests that you're probably gay. You are what you are, it isn't a matter of whether it's "OK." Sure, some people will turn their backs on you, some will be thrilled to know, and most won't care.

Do you like to look at the statue of David? Michelangelo made it, and he was gay. What more do you need to know? The better a person you are, the less anyone cares whether you're gay or straight or whatever.

First, you figure out if you're really gay or not (and you seem to be), then you decide who, if anyone, to tell. It's not an all-or-nothing deal. Just tell the people you trust the most. No one should "hate" you. We obviously don't!

Answer 3

Yes it's okay to be gay. If you like guy's and all that the best way is to stand in front of a mirror and say "I'm gay and I'm proud and I don't care what anyone thinks of me because of it". That's what I did except I said Lesbian anyways. You just have to convince yourself that you are if you can't do that then you might have to think about it more, and actually think "Am I really or is this just a stage that I think I am gay, but I'm really not?" Another way to know if you're gay is think of the last time you had sex with a girl or recently, and think if you liked it or if it felt weird.

Hope this helps

Answer 4

There might be some people who won't like the fact that you're gay but being gay isn't about there happiness, it's about yours. You have to take control of your life's happiness. Come out to the people who are closest to you. You could tell them individually or in a group. There might be some shock in the begining depending on who you tell but they'll either get use to it or want no part in your life. That'll be there lost though for turning there backs on you for something that you can't control.

Answer 5

do what makes you happy! if it feels right then it probably is right!
dont be afraid of others opinions!
my best guy mate has just come out, i kinda knew anyway but i know it was a huge step for him.
if telling people is what u want to do then start by telling your close friends, if they are true friends they'll love you no matter what!
hope it all goes ok with you!
theres nothing wrong with being gay!

Answer 6

Dude, don't be scared off by terrible people who write sh--t replies here. It's okay to be gay, but sometimes you're going to meet people who harass you . Try and ignore it. The smart people in the world know that we are just people like them. Who we have sex with bothers only the people who are ignorant.

Answer 7

Try the gay life for awhile. Then decide..if that is what you are or what you want. Simple..just be you and live for you

Answer 8

you sound confused. i'm tg m-f and i told a long time good friend of my feelings. i trusted him. he told me not to come (no pun intended) around him .. ever! he also said he had no idea i was such a f*g and told me if i knew what was good for me i would stay in the closet. i just said good-bye and haven't seen him since. it happens, some ppl will hate you. but your life is all about you! be happy.

Answer 9

C4 series on in the morning about being gay and coming out this week. Do us hets a favour and think about it a bit longer.

Answer 10

Only you can answer whether you are gay or not. But I do advise you to learn how to spell.