Has any married person had an unplanned pregnancy? What happend? I think I may be pregnant, but I am scared to tell my husband because he said he wasn't ready to have kids for 2 more years. He may think I did it on purpose, but I really didn't.
2007-02-28 07:56:48 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
When you enter into marriage. It means entering into the uknown with your husband. Unkown because you won't have any control of what's going to happen with your life as husbands and wife in building a family. Trust, Faith, and Love is what makes a marriage work between you, your husband and GOD. Marriage is saying the " I DO" everyday which is "For better or for worse, for sickness and in health, for richness and for poorer until death do us part"
I know you Trust each other because that is love. and that is required of entering into marriage and that whatever happens to you, whether you get pregnant, get an accident, get old or get bored. You will still love each other and do anything to maintain that.
Life is a matter of making every event that comes as a blessing or as a curse and a burden. You choose? and if you believe that your pregnancy is a blessing then it will be a blessing. TRust, Believe in our GOD and you will see the miracles and blessing that will continuously shower you and your family.
And by the way...in making love you are taking part in God's beautiful way of creating a child - a product of love and that is the very reason why God gave us the gift and the blessing of expereincing pleasure as we make love.
Marriage creates a new freedom as well. Just like learning to ride a bike, at first there is fear of falling and slowly you learn to trust, and let go of that fear and learn to ride the bike freely- thus a new freedom emerge.
Good luck in your marriage
2007-02-28 08:57:13 · answer #1 · answered by Saint777 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WELL if he wasnt ready to have kids he should of been more careful!!! And pregnancy is NEVER unplanned you know what will happen if you have sex....so.....
First take a pg test to know for sure, then sit down hubby and tell him the great news..
2007-02-28 08:00:56 · answer #2 · answered by Alexis221 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be honest with him and let him know that you didn't intentionally get pregnant. Anyway, isn't this as much his responsibility as it is yours?
2007-02-28 08:03:05 · answer #3 · answered by shendley04 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well, find out for sure first, you don't want to go freaking out before you need to...
and, if he loves you, he shouldn't have any doubts about your motives.
2007-02-28 08:00:27 · answer #4 · answered by Some Lady 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋