2007-02-28 07:53:18 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
It depends what you mean by "mean", Sometimes friends are just kidding around with you, but your question is kinda vague. What are they doing to you?
2007-02-28 07:58:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately the truth cpould be any number of reasons.
They might be annoyed at that moment by something else and took it out on you- which is uncalled ofr behaviour.
They may be upset with you for some reason- perhaps your niceness conveys a mothering or a controlling feeling you do not mean to exude...
They might just not really be your friends- who are they? Are they mean to you all the time? How often? When? Have you told them about how you felt at the time it happaned or in private a few hours later? You will not know until you talk to one or all of them. And it could all just be a misunderstanding....
They might be jealous or treat you badly only in certain situations- who was around, or where you were gathered. Notice and evaluate when, where and how they treat you badly. And it wouldn't hurt to check your self also... Just because you think you are being nice doesn't mean tey think you are being nice...
If the friendship is a strong one you should be able to talk about these things with the individuals in question privately... At least you can come to understanding with one another.
If you do not talk to eachother or forget about it hurt feelings can quickly turn to animosity and if it is a friend the last thing you want is to part in anger. Reconcile your differences and feelings and then hopefully the friendship can continue on a happier and smoother road.
:)
2007-02-28 08:05:42 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps it is because you are so nice that they treat you badly sometimes. When you're very nice people find it easy to tease you or take advantage of you, even though you treat them very well.
The next time the do it try sticking up for yourself. I hate confrontation myself so I know it may be hard, but if you call them on their rudeness a few times they will realize that they cannot treat you that way and stop.
2007-02-28 07:58:15 · answer #3 · answered by LawyerBarbie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not enough info to say for sure. People have good days where they're happy and bad days where they're irritable.
My guess is that you're too nice -- they have the idea that they can be mean to you and get away with it. The more you stand up for yourself, the more they will respect you & stop being mean. Don't worry; they won’t stop liking you for standing up & the less you rely on what they think, the happier you will be.
2007-02-28 08:04:47 · answer #4 · answered by Celt 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It might be due to your friend's upbringing, she might have been brought up to be mean in her house.
Then again she may be mean to you because she isn't really your friend, you need to find that out and decide if she is your friend or not, if she isn't then you will have to look for new friends baby.
2007-02-28 08:09:35 · answer #5 · answered by Pink_Zirconia!!! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have the same problem some most the people like but you have to show them that you don't like it.
2007-02-28 08:00:21 · answer #6 · answered by DJ Wrigth 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not trying to be mean but maybe they really dont like you and you cant take a hint.
2007-02-28 08:00:06 · answer #7 · answered by Pete 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hello i'm Italian. according to me you must be same you
2007-02-28 08:18:47 · answer #8 · answered by pollianna00 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋