how do you make friends in a new city as a working single mom?

Question

I recently moved to Atlanta after a divorce. I have a young daughter. I work full-time. I'm finding it hard to meet new people since I can't really go out during the week. My ex has her on Saturdays so I have that time, but I really don't know how to meet people, outside of work. It's not as easy as when you're in school with the same people every day. And most clubs that I would want to join meet during the week when I'm unavailable. I have also looked for single mom social clubs and there aren't any of those in my area either. Anyone have any suggestions?

Answer 1

look at meet up groups on line. and also Adultfriendfinder.com there are lots of people in atlanta looking for friendship...join a church there. maybe the Y....

Answer 2

I don't know if the would be of any interest to you but I sell Mary Kay and when I quit my full time job to stay at home with my daughters I didn't know anyone in my neighbourhood sad huh 5 years and I spent so much time at work I didn't even know the neighbours anyway I have made so many friend through my Mary Kay business some customers some not but is is a great way to meet people. Is there something like that that you might like to do part time a hobby you could do and not only will you make friends you could make money too. Stamp in up, creative memories, tastefully simple, pampered chef to name a few.

Answer 3

I know this is a difficult time for you. One of the best places to meet friends is at church. You could get involved with a Singles Ministry and meet other people who are experiencing your same problem. It would also be a great social outlet where your daughter could be included. Resist going to bars, etc. You will not likely meet the type people that will give you the encouragement that you need. Look for a Bible believing church where you feel comfortable. I have heard that the church where Andy Stanley is pastor is great and also where his dad Charles Stanley preaches. There are many great churches in Atlanta. Pray that the Lord will guide you to the place that will meet your needs - God is faithful and He will direct you. You are in my prayers!! God Bless You!

Answer 4

The best way is to go to a church. The religion of your choice. This will be good for your daughter also. It will also allow her to meet some new friends in a good environment. I wouldn't recommend night clubs. That's usually where a lot of alcoholics hang out, and that's not a good choice for a single mom. The Sunday School setting in a church is usually smaller groups and allows you to get to know people. Also, it looks like Sunday is a good day for you to socialize with your daughter.

Answer 5

The above answer is definitely a good option, but you may not be the religious type. I'm certainly not! If this is the case, your daughter's friends may be the answer! And no, I'm not saying you should start hanging out with 4 year olds... your daugher's friends' moms are perfect for friends. I know my mom has had much luck through this method. In fact most of her friends are moms of my friends. You will have something in common almost without trying because you can talk about your daughters and their school and such. Set up a playdate with one of your daughter's friends and talk with their mom for a while and maybe set up a dinner outing. You could share a babysitter too so you each won't have to pay separately!

Answer 6

Atlanta,wow you picked a hard place to be a single female,so many single ladies there, so few single males, Atlanta has to be one of the few places i know were i can go alone and find a girlfriend in just a few hours.......

Answer 7

You may not be a "church person", but I would recommend checking out some churches. There are lots of wonderful wholesome people there.

Answer 8

u should get involved with ur kids school u can make friends with the other parents or meet ur neighbors

Answer 9

Any coffee houses, gym, book clubs, y.w.c.a.