my husband went to florida on a business trip back in january for around five days.... i spoke to him everyday, but i recently found a receipt to the monkey jungle in florida that he charged to his credit card for two adults....! do you think two men would go see monkeys together? and he pay for it? he does have friends down there but come on monkeys?? and the worst think about we went there with our kids a few years back? should i mention this to him? i'm just tried of his lies and ways......
2007-02-28 07:48:01 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
That was me. We just wanted to see the monkeys. I didn't have any cash so I bought lunch and he paid for the jungle thing. It was pretty funny. You should take your kids to see them again.
2007-02-28 08:02:14 · answer #1 · answered by Martin Pedersen 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
"Tired of his lies and ways". My but this sounds like it runs a heck of a lot deeper than a Florida tourist trap.
Well...we're I to be unfaithful to my wife, the "Monkey Jungle" would not be my place of choice to take my mistress to. Nor would putting anything on a credit card or any other type of document that would clearly cause suspicion or concern to my spouse.
Let's say that you do mention it to him. Under the assumption this isn't anything new to you and you've been faced with this before, what did you get as a response with the other past incidents or indescretions? Did you call him on them? If so I would imagine you know what his answer would be.
I would suggest that until you can say for sure he didn't take a male pal to watch simians swing from the trees, pick bugs off of one another and screech at the top of their little monkey lungs, I'd keep it tucked away in the back of my mind. See..us males are horrible liars. Know why? We lie in detail. Problem with you females is that you remember what we said. Us being liars don't....we figure that excuse will suffice for you. So..ask him how the place was. Anything new from when you went there with the kids? Hmm..says two adults here...who'd you go with? Fred? Tom? frank?. He'll pick someone. wait 4 months...ask again. You may catch your first untruth at that time.
Again..there's more to this to lead you to this assumption. What's the past pattern here?
2007-02-28 16:04:11 · answer #2 · answered by Quasimodo 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well if this isn't the first "lie" then I would question him about it. But you need to bring it up in a non-confrontational way. You cannot assume he did anything wrong. You could just say something like you were checking the statement and saw he want to Monkey Jungle. Casually say, did you have a good time? Oh, that's good, who did you go with?
2007-02-28 15:53:48 · answer #3 · answered by Ambre B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are whacked.
Do you really think that he would cheat at " The Monkey Jungle"?
I thought you were talking about a strip joint at first.
I think you need to put your preconceptions about his "lies and ways" aside and figure out what is going on in your own head.
2007-02-28 16:08:37 · answer #4 · answered by Flagger 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to bypass the receipt and seek serious marriage counseling as a couple. If he's a liar, you obviously have trust issues. Either go get professional help for you and your children's peace of mind, or find a good divorce attorney and stop holding yourself hostage in a "trustless" marriage.
2007-02-28 15:57:21 · answer #5 · answered by Lexie 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes.i would i have the same problem with my husband about the lies he is always lying also and if i were in your position id ask what he did there and where he went and mention something about the monkey place we ewent to as a fam and ask if he remembered and if he went by it if he lies saying he didnt even pass by it or wasnt in that area you could catch him in that ly and show the creddit card bill
2007-02-28 15:57:14 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
. You said your tried of his lies and ways. He lies to you and you already know this. Do you feel he having affair, do you feel it in your gut? If a man keeps lien he hiding something. Apparently you caught him in all kinds of lies. And if your feeling it, more then likely he having affair. Let me tell you a cheater is a lire. I know I lived with one for 10yrs. He lied all the time. And some where it was right in my face, but I sometimes refuse to believe it but my gut didn't. I knew in my gut always. After all the years spent with him it all came out. Am really mad because I wasting 10yrs of my life and all a long I knew. I think you know too. Tell him and you know he going to lie about it. He not going to tell you he was with a women. They never do unless there caught.
2007-02-28 16:04:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Of course you should mention it to him. But if he did take another woman I do doubt he would be truthfull about it. I wonder if he has another child in Florida that he took? Just a thought.
2007-02-28 15:55:09 · answer #8 · answered by pictureshygirl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you might have spice things up a little more in the bedroom for him to stay with you.
2007-02-28 15:52:56 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋
say nothing....just become more of a "seductress" in the bedroom and see what happens...
2007-02-28 15:54:37 · answer #10 · answered by sunbun 6 · 1⤊ 2⤋