2007-02-28 07:45:36 · 18 answers · asked by mickey07 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
D-I-V-O-R-C-E!!!!!!
2007-02-28 07:54:48 · answer #1 · answered by H.B.K. 2 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Have the two of you tried marital counseling? Do you know the source of the problem? (In other words, does he have a sex addiction or are there emotional problems between the two of you?) Aside from the emotional trauma he's causing you, he's risking YOUR health by exposing you to the possibility of contracting an STD. You don't say much regarding how often this has happened, but once is more than enough. Start by putting him out of the house. If he won't leave, then YOU need to find somebody to stay with. (Frankly, since he's the one doing the cheating, HE has technically already left, so YOU should be the one to stay!) Yes, we are to forgive, but when we keep making the same choices, we get the same results. YOU need to make a difficult decision and stick to your guns. You can either talk to your husband and try to get help for your marriage, or you can break free and move on. I don't generally recommend divorce, but if your marriage can't be saved through counseling, YOU need to take steps to break the pattern. Adultery is valid grounds for divorce.
2007-02-28 16:28:40 · answer #2 · answered by Romans 8:28 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The key words are: ......keep cheating one me.......
A clear sign it is time to cut bait. How do you tolerate it living in the same home with such a man who does that to you?? If he is any kind of husband to you, then there would be no form of cheating to begin with. Without knowing the whole story, the only solution we can provide is to leave the bastard. It is better to be miserable alone than to face a man on a daily basis who is just keep rubbing it in your face. Your heart will break for a while, but it shall mend itself. Don't even bother waiting for the week to end...do it ASAP and seek a lawyer for the divorce papers.
Good luck....
2007-02-28 15:54:57 · answer #3 · answered by indyhype 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do the opposite of what you have been doing, and that is staying and taking it. Obviously it has not worked. Your decision, either you stay and take it or leave him. I see no other alternative. Your husband obviously has come to disrespect you and has commitment issues. At least if you leave he might see the light and straighten his wondering ways. Best of luck!
2007-02-28 15:51:31 · answer #4 · answered by pictureshygirl 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like hes sexually addicted. I assume you have proof and have confronted him. My suggestion is, help him pack up. Its not nice to not share with that chore, after all you shared everything else, including him. So pack up the little man and call the locksmith to change the locks. Thats what you should do
2007-02-28 15:49:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
if this has happened before and he won't stop doing it u need to get rid of this man, and regain your self worth. staying with a man who is disloyal will destroy your self esteem, you are putting faith in something that is broken.
2007-02-28 16:36:46 · answer #6 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first pray
second -congratulate moral men when your husband is watching you two ..so he sees that you have eyes and can notice other men ...
third - buy fine clothes , even sensuel clothes , etc..
2007-02-28 15:52:02 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he wont stop cheating leave him.
2007-02-28 15:55:48 · answer #8 · answered by Thumbs down me now 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What should you do? Gee...I don't know. Take a guess. Just what do you think you should do? Answer that any maybe we can go from there.
2007-02-28 15:48:47 · answer #9 · answered by Quasimodo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
either stay forgive or divorce him for his cheating won't stop
2007-03-04 15:11:39 · answer #10 · answered by sweetgranny06 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
and how long have you been unable to decide this? Get out and stop asking stupid questions
2007-02-28 16:25:26 · answer #11 · answered by pnut 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋