He loves me, but he keeps pushing me away. It's just to see if I will respond by leaving... I know because I do the same thing. We have both been hurt- - it's not easy to trust someone again. I believe that if I want to have a relationship with him that I need to trust him completely or not at all.... so I do. He, on the other hand, has a general distrust for women because he has been cheated on so many times... How do I let him know that I am not like all the other girls that he has been with? I am very open about who I talk to and where I am... he can check on me any time, but I'm not sure if it helps or not. I want him to know that he is important to me and that I love him. What are ways to show him how I feel? I'm looking for something out of the ordinary... be creative!
2007-02-28 07:37:35 · 3 answers · asked by Adeline 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
i have been in the same thing for 4 and a half years. he has to learn to trust u on his own as well as u have already learned to trust him. You can try and get him to trust u but then he could feel like your tryin to get him off ur case and make him trust u even less. If he really loves u he will come around, just be patient and keep reassuring him that hes all u need
2007-02-28 07:50:05 · answer #1 · answered by vbolden88 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only way he will know is by you being there over time and not changing. It will take time to earn his trust.
2007-02-28 15:49:06 · answer #2 · answered by wildstar_2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just keep doing what you're doing he'll come around and see you for who you are.
2007-02-28 16:11:15 · answer #3 · answered by WhyNotMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋