my friend is young and she don't want a baby right now and she wants to lose it and she don't want to have to pay any money she wants come tips..she hits herself ,jump,and push her stomach against some thing well she have one if she keeps doing that.oh yeah she smokes weed can that be a cause to?
2007-02-28 07:36:56 · 57 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
You're a moron and if you're friend is real then so is she. Grow up! If you're not ready to take responsibility for your actions then keep your damn legs closed.
2007-02-28 07:43:49 · answer #1 · answered by Daisy 3 · 3⤊ 1⤋
believe me you are going about this all the wrong way. Stop this now and step back before you go any further. I hope to God you have not damaged the little one. Your friend is not in the right state of mind or she would not be doing this. I had an abortion at 19 and it does have psychological effects (if you are in any way human yourself at all with feelings for another human being, you will understand what I am saying) and I live in Northern Ireland where abortions cannot be done unless for particular medical reasons and one of the hardest places to get help for an unwanted pregnancy.
No, the only person who can help you right now is your doctor and it would help if you took someone supportive with you to the doctor as you seem very mentally insecure and vulnerable. Take care
2007-02-28 10:11:49 · answer #2 · answered by hello there 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
That is just so terrible. Most people have miscarriages and are devastated, and you and your friend seem to look at it like it's a joke.
I know a girl who sounds exactly like you "friend". She smoked, drank, did coke and pretty much whatever she wanted when she was pregnant with her daughter. She hid her entire pregnancy hoping it would end in a miscarriage but it didn't happen. Her little girl now has learning dissabilities, and the mother gets to deal with the guilt of ruining her daughter's life.
It's really sad that you need a license for everything, but any idiot can have a baby.
2007-02-28 08:42:14 · answer #3 · answered by leenajoyce 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Have an abortion. Trying to cause a miscarriage wont work and could cause the baby to have some really bad disability problems if it is born. Hitting her stomach can cause internal bleeding with out her realise and end up killing both her and the baby
2007-02-28 11:42:38 · answer #4 · answered by nats200488 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
WOW!!! I not even gonna talk down on this situation this is sad. First everyone does not need to be a parent as you can see!!! All your friend is doing is harming herself and yet along can cause the baby "her baby" a serious disability in life. If she is early in her pregnancy the child his so far down in her pelvic area hit or any pressure is not going to harm the embryo. Also the embryo is enclosed in a sack that really is so thick it cant be penetrated. So "friend" tell you "Friend" to first tell her parents, pastor, counselor, someone of the situation, next go get medically check to see how far alone she is , Seek counseling (both of you), LAST FESS UP TO HER RESPONSIBILITIES AND TAKE CARE OF HER BABY.
"I was told when you open em' something may come out"
2007-02-28 07:55:35 · answer #5 · answered by 247Questions? 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
That is cruel,and your standing by your friend doing this are you?Theres thousands od woman out there and on here longing for a baby and you come on to ask this non-humane question?You cannot force a miscarraige but it will be better if the baby does come away from the utursu as by the sounds of it it will be brought in to a right horrid life and the baby is better of without people like you.If she is certain she doesent want the baby why didnt she use CONTRACEPTION in the first place its bloody free at your local clinic!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1That woukld save all this sorry i hate people like this and like you who will stand by someone who does this i have lost a baby and am still severly depressed as i may never have another it was ectopic and i come here to find questions like that?Tel your friend adoption is an option if she doesent want it qand if she has an abortion tell them to take her fertility away at the same time she dont deserve it!!!!!!!!!!
2007-02-28 08:38:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
I think u can actually kill the embryos inside the womb or something by taking pills, not sure though. Up to your friend if she wants the baby or not, the baby isn't even born anyway. I'm 15 and still in school so i would get rid of that baby but people have different opinions. Well my mum also smoked and drinked when she was pregnant with me, u telling me smoking cigarettes ain't a drug too?
2007-02-28 07:45:15 · answer #7 · answered by Want Your Bad Romance 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Apart from you and your friend being obviously 2 brains short of intelligence of any kind!! if you girls are serious then go to a bloody doctor or marie stopes clinic dont try to miscarry. whilst alot of people are against abortion i believe many women who´ve suffered miscarriages would prefer to hear your friend does the legal abortion rather than trying to punch her pregnancy away. abortion isnt cheap for a reason but it is safer than your silly friend doing that to herself and her child. and if she does have an abortion tell her to go on the pill afterwards always use a condom and if that is too difficult for her then tell her to keep her legs shut till shes mature enough to accept the responsibilty of making grown up legal decisions!!!
2007-03-03 06:11:13 · answer #8 · answered by bexta 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur friend can have an abortion for free at planned parenthood without her parents knowing. trying to induce a miscarriage is just silly and cowardly. if she cant stand up and be a woman about motherhood, she should at least take the responsibility of having an abortion, before she ends up carrying this baby full term and giving birth to it, then her life is gonna be ruined and so is the babies
2007-02-28 11:28:19 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is no set way or one cause of miscarriage. Many woman have gone through tramatic experiences and being beaten up, and still continued with their pregnancy. The only sure way is to have an abortion.
But, she could try raspberry tea made from raspberry leaves. The herb books say this tea could cause miscarriage.
2007-02-28 07:41:08 · answer #10 · answered by Nepetarias 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
She needs to go to the doctors and get an abortion. Seriously she could really injure herself - i.e. she could hemorrage internally and end up dead. Or prevent herself from having kids in the future. Miscarriage is natures way of saying that a pregnancy is not viable not to be brought on by young girls who have got themselves in trouble.
2007-02-28 07:42:17 · answer #11 · answered by Lady Claire - Hates Bigotry 6 · 5⤊ 0⤋