I just moved out of my good friend "Rose's" house because her husband "Eric" has hit on me so many times I can't keep count, even though I've threatened to tell "Rose" and avoided him when he was home (he's a long haul truck driver that is gone 2-3 weeks a month) he'd find a way. Finally I packed my bags and moved out. Rose keeps asking me why and I've hurt her feeling because we were helping each other with the living arrangements. What do I say to her? They have been married for almost 15 years with 4 children ages 12-3 years old. I don't want to break up a family or worst have my friend not believe me.
2007-02-28 07:19:08 · 9 answers · asked by po8t1 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You should tell her straight out. If you keep it from her, then you'll be a bad friend. Your relationship won't end, if you give her the facts. Good luck!
2007-02-28 07:23:03 · answer #1 · answered by Niki B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-26 20:42:55 · answer #2 · answered by penso 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell you're friend he is a cheater and i will tell you no b.s. if i did not have my wife around and i did that job i would probably be a peace of sh*t cheater to guy's can't go that lone w/out sex it's not happening and yes you should talk to you're friend about this problem and you need to bring it up privately tell her it's the freakin reason you wanted to move out in the first place cause every time she wasn't around he would pull this B.S. and you wernt having you be the cause of any of there problems . if she dose not belive you she's not you're friend &if she is a true friend she will call him on this / or atleast understand why you left . and i would have him s.t.d. tested (sexualy.transmited. disease .test) no joke the man has 2-3week's a month to get w/other women and if he's trying with his wife's best friend he WILL try with any one he F-in well can & and his is from a happy guy
2007-02-28 07:48:49 · answer #3 · answered by Damien GOTTI 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing to do is to tell her, but not in one mouthful if you know what I mean. Wait to a time that she's not upset, it'll go over better. It's not real serious yet, so don't panic or anything. Just tell her, because if she doesn't get a harness on her man, who knows how many other women he may be hitting on or worse.
2007-02-28 07:27:40 · answer #4 · answered by belliott_777 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know, I think it would depend on the situation. If my friend's husband hit on me once, and stopped when I told him to stop - I would certainly not be telling on him. But if it kept going on as you're describing - I would probably tell. Either way, you made the right decision to move out.
2007-02-28 07:23:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to tell her! because if she finds out another way and knows you didn't tell her I think she'd be way more upset. She has the right to know that her husband is unfaithful. If he's tried it with you, he can try it with anyone else. She's already upset that you've moved out, explain to her why. Don't let him get in the way of your friendship.
2007-02-28 08:14:48 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well...i say be honest....why if you care about your friend then she exspects you to tell her...it might be a bit awkard but at least she knows the truth...and she wont be blindfolded anbout this patentuallty serious problem...
2007-02-28 07:26:08 · answer #7 · answered by Brooke 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, you should tell her. This is a dangerous secret to keep.
2007-02-28 07:23:51 · answer #8 · answered by charlie h 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes you should tell her, chances are he has one in every state and she already knows.
2007-02-28 07:23:07 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋