2007-02-28 07:03:59 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
Ouch, that's always tough. I've been there -- I left. It hurt, lots, but turned out to be the best thing I could have ever done. Later, I found the true love of my life, who loves me more than anything as well.
2007-02-28 07:07:57 · answer #1 · answered by kja63 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all the word love gets thrown around way too much. If you think about it, love is like a living thing between two like minded people. We can be attracted to a person in many ways. We can be sexually aroused by a person. We can like to be with, or talk with, or to look at etc. lots of people.
We can be obsessed with a person all by ourselves. We can be addicted to a person all by ourselves. We can stalk a person all by ourselves. But love? That, my friend requires both persons. It is not possible to love someone that does not love you. You may be feeling strong emotions but whatever they are they are something less than love. Love is not just a feeling. It involves something deeper and includes a commitment.
When I first found out what it meant I was still a young man. I defined it for myself as this, "To be in love means that the other person is still there for you to apologize to after you have been an ***."
The both of you must be committed to two things: to each other and to the relationship. Commitment to the relationship is what makes you wait for the other to stop being and ***. Once there was a pop culture phrase that came from a movie. It said,"Love is never having to say your sorry." I found that not to be true. Love is to actually be sorry when you do harm; the saying comes easily.
2007-02-28 15:32:03 · answer #2 · answered by Jacob W 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, no I wouldn't. I mean, maybe for a while I would until I got the courage to go out on my own. But for the long haul I just couldn't stand to be around someone whom I had such strong and passionate feelings for knowing they weren't reciprocal. It would drive me crazy and in staying with such a person , it would only be a matter of time before you really got hurt. Being in such a "relationship," if that's what you want to call it, is tantamount to being addicted to a drug. The name for it with people is co-dependency.
2007-02-28 15:12:43 · answer #3 · answered by soulguy85 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they told me that they didn't love me, I wouldn't. But if we were just in a rocky spot, I would stay. I mean it really depends on who the person is.
If they were married to me, I would stay with them, because they were the one that also agreed to all of the good stuff. Like staying together for better or for worse.
I mean, if we were just dating, I would strongly consider leaving them.
2007-02-28 15:09:22 · answer #4 · answered by ♥ Mischa S. ♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No because they dont love you and you are just wasting ur valuable time. If they loved you they wouldve made u happy by now. Move on get a better partner ;)
2007-02-28 15:07:15 · answer #5 · answered by misz.blueberry_69 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope.
2007-02-28 15:06:44 · answer #6 · answered by ♪ ♫Jin_Jur♫ ♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope....in my eyes love is only truly love when it is felt by both people!
2007-02-28 15:07:22 · answer #7 · answered by lizzy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope, You don't want me I certainly don't want you....No way move on...my saying, men/wpmen are like buses...a new one will be along in 15 minutes.
2007-02-28 15:14:22 · answer #8 · answered by Luvatlanta 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don know
r u getting some every nite
2007-02-28 15:08:02 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ouch, that's a toughie...is there any hope of them loving you back someday? b/c if not, you have keep your dignity and move on... :(
2007-02-28 15:08:01 · answer #10 · answered by alis.volat.propriis 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋