be in love with a teacher??
2007-02-28 06:15:13 · 18 answers · asked by HI!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! 4 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
and is it wrong if the actually feel the same for you and ur just 15
2007-02-28 06:15:43 · update #1
If your not a student then it's fine.
2007-02-28 06:26:45 · answer #1 · answered by Erinyes 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
The problem with love is it's so emotional.
Most people don't have good risk assesment until they are 25. That's why young people do risky things that get them killed or maimed. The problem with adults having emotional involvement with teens is that the teens cannot understand the risks. The adult may be a sexual predator who will use the teen as long as it suits them.
The victim in this situation is almost always female, primarily because she can become pregnant, but also because women invest more emotionally in a relationship. Males are seldom hurt if a sexual relationship with an older woman ends.
2007-02-28 14:29:14 · answer #2 · answered by mindshift 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's normal for teenagers to feel infactuated with an adult that they feel is nurturing and helps them succeed at things or makes them feel good about themselves. However, it is not normal for a teacher to take advantage of your feelings. He/she is in a position to guide you not take advantage. I had a huge crush on a female teacher before and she knew it. I also knew she was a lesbian as well. However, she did not take advantage of the opportunity to get her personal needs met by engaging in a detremental relationship with me. She simply told me that I was beautiful and that I will one day meet someone of my own age and who has the experiences that I've had and we will grow together. She said she was flattered at the thought that such a beautiful girl would be interested in her but that we could only share a bed and that was all and she and I both needed more than that. She wanted to be my teacher not my lover. She said that I wouldn't understand this now but will appreciate it so much more later. So fast forward 15 years later and we email eachother and I tell her how much I appreciate her not taking that opportunity to get her rocks off and ruining what has become the most sacred moment in my life. Making love for the first time to the woman I have been with for over 10 years.
2007-02-28 14:26:36 · answer #3 · answered by jassyj 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It is wrong in America due to legal definitions so there's one point against ya. On the other hand, are you sure its love and not just a strong infatuation? and are you sure the teacher's not out simply to get sex? And lastly I mean most high school relationships are just practice anyway so I wouldn't even take it so seriously. I apologize if that seems cold but that's how it seems to me. That said, I don't think it's wrong to be attracted to a teacher I would just hesitate to attach to much of my own heart to it.
2007-02-28 14:22:37 · answer #4 · answered by Jon C 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it is wrong to like a teacher. I do think it is wrong to act on those feelings while they are your teacher and you are attending the same school they teach at. I also think it is wrong for anyone who is under 18 to even attempt to go out with a teacher....you can use it against them/they can use it against you later.
2007-02-28 14:21:07 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is NORMAL for you to feel that way about a teacher -- it's a crush -- or it is lust -- it is not love.
IT IS WRONG for the teacher to reciprocate. You'll get over it and remember your crush on your teacher "back when" just like the rest of us.
It is also wrong because if you two do ANYTHING together, this teacher can be arrested, lose his job and his future. Would you want that?
2007-02-28 14:19:26 · answer #6 · answered by butterfliesRfree 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
its not wrong its just wont happen that ur teacher will have the same feeling for u
2007-02-28 14:20:59 · answer #7 · answered by sexylezbian956 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some how I'm getting the felling,that you have a "crush" on your teacher,and this person is simply adorable,but letting him know what your felling would bring a strain on his career. I'm sure there's a nice young man somewhere who is willing to be with you,without the hassel. (Now) If your teacher is making the moves on you,and you're thinking it's ok,to fool around,then what's going to happen,is the school administration will find out,he will be terminated,and you will probably be expelled from school. (Be careful)
2007-02-28 14:28:46 · answer #8 · answered by Squeakers 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
yes it is considered wrong b.c ur a minor. maybe ur not inlove ur just crushin on them.. my advise is dont risk it. and IF it is love then that person will wait and repect u and the laws until u become a considered adult (18) . but iam sure that ur just crushin.
2007-02-28 14:20:11 · answer #9 · answered by ♠Nekogal♠ 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is a normal experience to have a CRUSH on a teacher---keep it as such....this will pass and you can then avoid a potentially horrible situation
2007-02-28 14:18:21 · answer #10 · answered by sage seeker 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
YES! Why would you be in love with a pedophile?
Think about that for a second
2007-02-28 14:18:28 · answer #11 · answered by SheSoFly 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋