I currently have a boyfriend that I am very satisfied with, and comfortable with our relationship. But I also have an ex boyfriend I find myself falling in love with. We ended slightly unfinished, and I didn't really know how to get rid of these feelings. It's like when I'm with my boyfriend, I feel sad, or guilty of doing something wrong, and I think it's because I haven't really given my all to them, but I left my ex because he wasn't really willing to be open with his feelings with me... and it made me sad... Advice?
2007-02-28 06:02:55 · 9 answers · asked by littlejoy1089 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Yup ur showing all the telltale signs of being in love with someone other that the person ur calling your boyfriend..you will always feel that way too unless that old relationship is either put to bed or resurrected...try contacting the ex again and see where he stands with things, if hes not wanting you back into his life, maybe hearing that will give u some closure, if he wants to try things again, all the better....
2007-02-28 06:19:50 · answer #1 · answered by cindy 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Never regret a path already taken, just learn about the signs that you read along the way. I have always been a strong believer in never going back, if a relationship has ended, for whatever reason, it ended. You now have someone you say you are happy with, then why again contemplate a relationship that you weren't happy with. I also believe that all things happen for a reason, you and your ex are not together for a reason and you know oh so well what it is, but then again all you can get here is advice, the choice is yours.
2007-03-07 20:31:33 · answer #2 · answered by Bethy4 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can totally appreciate and understand your circumstances. I was in a relationship back in 2003 and at age 36 I found my true love. We ended the relationship in 05 and to this day I think about this person daily and I would give anything to have it back again. I too am in a relationship now and have felt like I were cheating. Even though time has passed and being in this current relationship 8 months I no longer feel like I am cheating I am still in love and always will be.
2007-03-08 04:54:37 · answer #3 · answered by femmsagg 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You arent emotionally ready for this current ralationship,especially when you still have feelings for the ex.rethink the situation and try to get the ex to open up to you.This is not fair to the new boyfriend.if you love the ex than break off this new relationship.Its really not being fair.People get hurt this way.Be open and honest.
2007-03-07 00:49:12 · answer #4 · answered by canteloupesweet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-26 20:34:40 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This depends on your heart. If you like your boyfriend but love your ex you have to go with your heart. If your ex wants you back and you want him back whats the problem? I understand why you feel guilty so all I can tell you is go with your heart.
2007-03-07 16:25:35 · answer #6 · answered by kjh06_07 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you weren't ready emotionally to be in another relationship yet. Mabey you should be honest with your current boyfriend and let him now that there are unfinished feelings that you need to deal with. He may actually try to help you through them, if he is mature enough to realize it's about you and not him.
2007-03-07 00:06:38 · answer #7 · answered by laceywat1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Rule number one never ever ever settle. Don't ever enter a relationship just because he's a good guy and your comfortable with him, ecspecially if you still long for someone else or have feelings for someone else. He deserves to be with someone that is going to love him, the way you love your ex. I would break it off with him before it's to late, and try to patch things up with your ex. He deserves that much respect f you really care about him you would keep holding him while you still have feelings for your ex. I would be so hurt if my husband told me he still loves his ex. First of all I want him to be happy and second of all how dare you do that to someone. Sorry I don't mean to sound rude, you truely are confused, and I understand that. Why would you want to feel so guilty, you obviously understand that you have the ability to hurt the guy really bad. Please don't delay let this guy go, before he gets his heart in to much. You both deserve happiness................
2007-02-28 06:17:31 · answer #8 · answered by 1st_time_mummy 1 · 1⤊ 2⤋
sounds like you need to finish things with your ex before you can move on.
2007-03-07 01:53:17 · answer #9 · answered by *G* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋