How many of you had second thoughts while you were engaged, or right before the wedding, and did the marriage worked out... ?
2007-02-28 05:53:54 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Heck Yes! I would be worried if you did NOT have second thoughts about it. That would indicate you had not even had FIRST thoughts about it. Having second thoughts shows you are taking it seriously enough to make a success at it. Just make sure you and your prospective spouse (not a game bird) are compatable through more ways than feelings.
2007-02-28 05:59:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
yes I had very serious 2nd thoughts about getting married to my wife , part of it was that I was also interested in another women who lived a good distance away [ knew her for almost 10 yrs ] I had feelings for her but I didn't know how she felt towards me and lost touch with her . 2yrs after getting married I saw her and we talked and it turned out she did have feelings for me and one of reasons for her coming in to town was to look me up .
and the marriage has been working out for almost 27 yrs , and from time to time I still think about the other lady and wounder if she and I would of worked out long term
2007-02-28 06:14:58 · answer #2 · answered by crazy_ol_hippie_radical 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I didn't have second thoughts. But I hear it's pretty normal.
2007-02-28 05:57:39 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it just nature to get cold feet, knowing to going in to a life, not knowing what going to happen,,, me it was when i was standing in front of the percher lol,,,, i for got how to talk,,, but that was many years ago, an we still very happy
2007-02-28 08:50:52 · answer #4 · answered by ghostwalker077 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋