I just recently broke up with my ex about a week ago, we have been going on a rollcoaster ride with our relationship, we lived together in a hotel for nearly 3 years, I was unemployed for about 6 months out of those 3 years, meanwhile I would find jobs but they would be out of the area nearly 45 minutes to an hour away from where we lived and her job was just down the highway, anyways time went by and we discussed things over about me getting a house for us, I worked at a friends custom auto shop and it was a great hourly payed job 14 an hr and also labor, I would put in about 64 hours a week, saving up money for the house and also the bills that I had, so time goes by again and I get into a really bad situation, I used to traffic money and drugs for my uncles friend in ny, I lost some money and also some frugs and just fled out of the state fearing I was going to loose my life, I owed nearly 26,000 dollars, and came within reason to repay back some of that money I knew I lost
2007-02-28
05:38:58
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Raqwen
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➔ Marriage & Divorce
due to me getting arrested from a police sting, about 3 months ago I started to repay my debt, but not only that I was suffering from a depression disorder, and I also have a heart disease ventricular myopothy, and I was due for a minor heart surgery, anyway last week february 17 she decided to break up with me, just because I was always working and doing what I had to do to ensure me or her lives were at risk, because I have received and gotten beat up and stabbed before by the same people and dont want to experience that again, shes pregnant and right now to me shes nothing, she said that she was sorry and its all her fault, she doesnt feel a connection with me anymore, she listens to her mother and her friends more than she did with me, im very hurt and I have someone else in my life that loves me way more than her, shes had a crazy past life of drugs, partying, having sex with multiple men, I wanted to work it out but I feel as though she is really selfish cause im busting my a_s_s
2007-02-28
05:44:56 ·
update #1
to save up for a house, repay back some money I owe, goto counseling for my depression and suicidal thoughts, and also checkups for my heart problem, im so glad I didnt do anything stupid to myself, I mean what type of person does this to one when hes going through so much and trying to make there lives better, I was also in the process of buying her a car, and she decides owe I dont wanna be with you anymore, I cursed her out told her I didnt want anything to do with her, she kept telling me I still love you and I dont think she does cause evidently she didnt care i was putting my life at risk for us and also overworking myself to be a better person and fiance to her, all I need to know is what should I do in this type of situation, she told me that she is gonna leave the state so that I cant see my child or try to put a hit our on her, she also fears if I take her to court that I can get full custody cause I make 45k she makes 16k, what do i do in this situation, thanks guys:)
2007-02-28
05:49:31 ·
update #2
MY QUESTION IS WHAT DO I DO IN THIS SITUATION !!!!!! I HAVE SOMEONE NOW IN MY LIFE, AND I CARE FOR MY EX FIANCE BUT DONT LOVE HER, IM GOING THROUGH HAVING SURGERY, COUNSELING, AND REPAYING MY DEBT TO A DRUGIE
2007-02-28
05:53:13 ·
update #3
I NEVER WAS A DRUG ADDICT I JUST TRANSFERED MONEY MOSTLY, PLEASE RESPECTFUL OPINIONS
2007-02-28
05:57:10 ·
update #4