we have been friends for 9 years but we have gone in two different ways in life, she parties and has a lot of guy friends and a lot of drama. I stay home and have a good man who takes care of me, i expecting my first child. she already has a child who is horribly spoiled, i can't stand the way he acts around her, he acts differently around me because i don't allow it. She makes a lot of bad decisions and ask for advice then does the opposite. we haven't talk in about 3 weeks and we only talked then because she asked me to watch her child while she went to work because no one else wouldn't. before that maybe 2 weeks no talkin. is our friendship over?
2007-02-28 05:37:16 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
It has happened to me, but a little differently. My best bud became hugely successful and started hanging out with people who I didn't have anything in common with. They started doing things I couldn't afford to do and sometimes disapproved of. I just hung back for awhile and then they started calling again. Once they realized I had started disappearing from their life they asked what was up and I explained my point of view...nicely. We are now very good friends again and now when he does things that are out of my price range he doesn't talk a lot about it or sometimes he will invite me as a guest. Communication is essential even with friends. Tell her how you feel, but don't be aggressive about it. If she won't listen then she isn't a true friend.
2007-02-28 05:55:36 · answer #1 · answered by Alchemist 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The way it sounds she is just using you so i say yes it is pretty much over but you may need to talk to her and see what the problem really is.
2007-02-28 13:41:34 · answer #2 · answered by Happily Taken 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say yes.. Sounds like she only talks to you when she wants something. That isn't a friendship.
2007-02-28 13:41:25 · answer #3 · answered by dawnmarieeastwood 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
TAL K TO HER AND FIGURE OUT WHAT WENT WRONG YOU'RE BOTH GROWN SO THERES NO REASON TO BEAT AROUND THE BUSH WITH IT TELL HER WHATS BOTHERING YOU AND HOPEFULLY SHE DOES THE SAME REAL FRIENDS DONT LET THERE LIFESTYLES COME BETWEEN THEM
2007-02-28 14:07:48 · answer #4 · answered by Ms.Larkin 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
shes only using u as a babysitter
2007-02-28 13:40:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What friendship?
2007-02-28 13:41:23 · answer #6 · answered by zaytox0724 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try talking to her or get her some help.
2007-02-28 13:45:53 · answer #7 · answered by kevo m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah i think it is...it seems to me that she is taking advantage of you
2007-02-28 14:28:14 · answer #8 · answered by satine30 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
babysitter.??,, you are friends also,..,
good luck ,.,friends help friends,..,
2007-02-28 13:49:44 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋