Or did you just fall into your next relationship and hope for the best?
2007-02-28 05:36:12 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
over the years that list was made...but I didn't fall into the first relationship....what I did do was fall into bed with the first hottie I came across (what they say about divorcee's is VERY true LOL)
2007-02-28 05:40:31 · answer #1 · answered by brazenone 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I fell into the next relationship. That was such a mistake. After that relationship blew up in my face I made a list of things that I definately wanted in the next relationship including a list of qualities I was looking for in the next woman that I would enter into a relationship with. This is a strategy that has served me well.
2007-02-28 13:56:12 · answer #2 · answered by Bud 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yup I made a list it is almost 2 pages long. As I get to know the guy I fill in the answers. My list is more of what I don't want in a relationship. I live in a very very small town for the time being so the men are pretty much non existent but you know it's better to know what you want and don't want so you don't waste your time or theirs. Good luck.
2007-02-28 13:42:06 · answer #3 · answered by blondie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
After my divorce I made a list of what I want. Period. I then made a list of where I went wrong, tried to go back and amend any damage I did to my ex. I now know where I would like to be and how I would like to act. I have dated since my divorce, and have been in a few relationships since then. I have even given advice (he asked me) to my ex's new husband. Currently I am single, by choice, and am rebuilding my life. I cant change how my exwife or future wife acts. I just shoot for realistic expectations of what I need and how I want to act. Good luck!!
2007-02-28 13:41:56 · answer #4 · answered by Surrendered 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
After I broke up with my fiance (10 years ago) I sort of changed what I was looking for, but not much.
My husband did actually sit down and write a list of what he wanted. And I am in some ways very different from his ex...but in some ways very similar.
I just fell into a relationship with him, but he conciously chose me. So yes, and yes! We're working on six years now and happy.
2007-02-28 13:41:59 · answer #5 · answered by Fotomama 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I made sure I had a list of things I wanted and needed for my next relationship.
There was no way in hell I was repeating the misery that, thankfully I left behind.
2007-02-28 13:44:14 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Making a list of what you want right after a break up can be a dumb thing to do - no-one may live up to your fantasy of he perfect partner and what you think you want in such an emotinal state may be unrealistic.
I did make a list tho - of things I would NOT tolerate in another relationship, ever.
2007-02-28 13:41:33 · answer #7 · answered by Kella G 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I made a list and checked back to it a few times. Thankfully i found a good man there are still some out there.LOL The key is not to settle.. Good Luck
2007-02-28 13:43:58 · answer #8 · answered by BLONDE BEAUTY 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO Way I would have left for chance this time. I had a list of what I loved about a man, a list of what I want in a man, a list of what I can't stand and will not compromise in a man.
You know what ?????? I got what I wanted exactly...took me 10 years but he is perfect for me....
2007-02-28 13:40:10 · answer #9 · answered by Ariana 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO make a list of what you don't want and then do whatever is not on it. i know it sounds trivial but it is all on how you look at something that make you see it differently.. hope this helped..
by the way i am on my second and last marriage because of this..
2007-02-28 13:55:22 · answer #10 · answered by favoritson 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋