If in a committed relationship with a woman you love, how many of you guys out there have visited brothels etc, and/or been privvy to paid for sex and then cheated on your partner? Don't bother with witty stupid or one line answers plse. I want honest, informative answers ie. your motivation and feelings toward the topic.
2007-02-28 04:48:57 · 29 answers · asked by Terry T 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Most men enjoy seducing women rather than paying for their services.
2007-02-28 04:52:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
This must be a trick question (no pun intended there). All guys pay for sex.
Oh sure there are enlightened women that feel like sex is a mutual pleasure that is enjoyable to both partners and therefore they make no demands other than they not be disrepected for holding this view....but they are very very rare.
2007-02-28 15:47:08 · answer #2 · answered by JRSK007 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was a regular visitor to the whore houses in Germany as a young and single soldier. As a married man 20 years later I don't consider cheating on my wife with anyone, for money or for free. If I suddenly became single again, who knows, maybe I would pay for it, but I think I'd have to wear a full body condom.
2007-02-28 13:08:36 · answer #3 · answered by bugs280 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have heard my male friends did it in australia, america, europe and asia. he said to my other male friend that it was kinda 'loose and no feeling'. it seemed not too much fun for him. but i heard the high priced escort service has gorgeous ladies there. i don't like to judge and i feel people who do it have their reasons. And for whichever reasons they are, i can kinda sympasize/understand them even though i am a female and most of us are against this topic. as far as i know, i think guys can do it without feelings better than females. this service has been there since the existence of human beings. as long as they're well-protected and don't pass any diseases to others, i have no problem with it. i actually am more interested in finding out their psychologies and reasons behind when they 'have' to use the service. just my 2 cents! ^_^
2007-02-28 13:45:00 · answer #4 · answered by xyz 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
After my divorce I was not in a good mindset for a relationship and I didn't want to mislead anyone. I hired a high priced escort thinking that she would be prettier and safer.
I reasoned that any girl who would have a one night stand would potentially be just as disease ridden as a high priced girl. At least this way there would be no kissing or bodily fluids exchanged.
I was young and needed to have my pipes cleaned with no strings attached. This was the path of least resistance. I'm not proud of it, but at the time it was right for me. I'd be too scared to do it if I ever became single again.
EDIT: It was a one time deal. She was gorgeous. She even called a week later and wanted to know if I wanted to get coffee. I didn't.
2007-02-28 12:56:09 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 1⤋
Sh*t, I haven't paid for it since, I was in the service overseas(before gettin merried) back in 72. Now, I've been divorced for 18 yrs and still don't pay. There's just too much of it out there to have to pay for it;)
2007-02-28 12:59:28 · answer #6 · answered by Don B 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I did when I was married. From the moment the ring went on her finger, I paid dearly. But aside from that, No. Sex is another way of showing your feelings for someone. Paying for it cheapens
a wonderfull thing.
2007-02-28 12:56:08 · answer #7 · answered by redman 5 · 4⤊ 0⤋
While i was in the Army overseas in Korea I did. Well, I didnt pay for it, someone from my platoon did when we all went out for the weekend. It was just given to me, like a gift. Merry Christmas Piggy!
2007-02-28 12:57:06 · answer #8 · answered by John Redcorn 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is an honest, very true answer. I have never in my life paid for sex. Not in person, not over the internet, not at all. And I never will.
2007-02-28 12:54:08 · answer #9 · answered by vanhammer 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I have never stepped outside of my marriage. But I have paid for sex. I'll admit. I will continue to pay for sex as long as my wife says if you do______ I will do ______. Isn't that a form of prostitution? But flat out paying another woman to do it I would never do that to my wife.
2007-02-28 17:29:43 · answer #10 · answered by CJ5fan 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Never have paid for sex and never will. I need a woman to have feelings and I feelings for her to have sex.
There is no difference between a paid hooker and pleasuring yourself as far as feelings go except saving money and not being exposed to std's.
2007-02-28 12:57:39 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋