MY EX-FIANCE AND I HAD A FIGHT, SHE IS TRYING TO CONTROL ME AND MADE ME CHOOSE BETWEEN HER AND MY BEST FRIEND. SHE TOLD ME TO LOOSE HER NUMBER AND DONT MAKE ANY ATTEMPT TO CONTACT HER. IT HAS NOW BEEN 2 DAYS AND I HAVE NOT CALLED HER. SHE HAS CALLED 4 TO 5 TIMES TODAY AND SENT A TEXT MESSAGE SAYING "SO WE CANT TALK HUH?" SO NOW I DONT KNOW IF I WANT TO CALL HER OR NOT... ANY SUGGESTIONS? I AM A FEMALE BY THE WAY.
2007-02-28 04:27:55 · 16 answers · asked by six_color_dom 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Your ex has some issues. And friends always help to keep you on the right track, because they care about you. You already said your ex fiance was really controlling, why are you listening to her? Talk to your friend, if you separate from your friends because of someone else, when the time comes that you need them, they will not be there for you. How can you let someone tell you who you can talk to or not? That shows to me that the person making the imposition does not care about you. I would never ask my girlfriend to not call one of her friends, and trust me, I can't even stomach her best friend. But I am civil and even nice for her sake, because I don't want her to feel like she has to give up her friends for me.
2007-02-28 04:37:54 · answer #1 · answered by The One and Only 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think Unclefrunk has the right idea, call her and let her know how you feel, and see what she has to say. You may find that she's realized she was wrong and wants to make up, so give her a chance.
I don't like some of my hubby's friends, and we've had disagreements about them sometimes, but I will never ask her to give up her friends, just like she should never ask me to give up mine. Your girl should never have asked you to choose, and perhaps now she knows it. Call her, and good luck.
2007-02-28 13:34:59 · answer #2 · answered by pookieb 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Anyone who demands that you choose between them and someone else needs to be kicked to the curb. Time to grow up and find a relationship with a normal, healthy woman. Trust is KEY in a relationship...this is NOT an example of someone trusting you. How 3rd grade!!!
2007-02-28 12:54:14 · answer #3 · answered by Bear 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you really are close to your frined, call her. But if it's something serious, and you want to tell her, try breaking it down for her so she would understand. As for the ex- fiance, well, I don't know whats her problem, but she can't lead your life.
2007-02-28 12:32:47 · answer #4 · answered by adventchildrenflames 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call her. Make her realise that you don't like being controlled that you want to keep your best friend and that she hurt you by giving you ultimatums.
Then listen to what she has to say and take it from there.
2007-02-28 13:17:50 · answer #5 · answered by unclefrunk 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course call her then meet her and set up a tripod with a camera. record the whole session. make love to her slowly and at times with a little tasteful violence. then put the video up on youtube. see? life is simple.
2007-02-28 12:32:48 · answer #6 · answered by kokis_jap 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, call her. Even if just to straighten things out.
If you don't call her, you'll never know what could have been. Obviously, don't be apologetic, it sounds like she is at fault for the fight.
2007-02-28 12:31:09 · answer #7 · answered by Neilos 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well you can be mature and call her and sort things out or you can be imature and continue to fight . You re choice .
2007-02-28 12:31:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
You don't need to call her if she's going to try to control you. You are not her pet.
2007-02-28 12:40:51 · answer #9 · answered by What'd You Say? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should call her try to make up
2007-02-28 12:31:58 · answer #10 · answered by nikki 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋