What can i do to assure my husband that if i go somewhere with out him i will be ok?
2007-02-28 04:01:02 · 8 answers · asked by Thumbs down me now 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If you think he is worried now Waite until you get pregnant again.Mine treated me like I was a porcelain doll.I don't know if it will work with your hubby.But with mine I took a cell phone with me every were.And I set up a schedule of check in times with him.Like I would call him every few hours or if I was going some were with someone else or to visit someone.I would call when I left our house,when I got to were I was going.Pretty much just kept in contact with him.So he could see I would be o.k.Try going to the grocery store down the road or the gas station or someplace close a few times to show him that you will be coming back. I know it might make you feel like a child but it helps them cope.
2007-02-28 08:56:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Lara is my Alter Ego too.
Maybe some grief counceling would be a start. Alot of men are hit hard by their wife being pregnant anyway, and when you add a miscarrage (let alone two), they start to feel guilty, for some odd reason.
Take him with you to your next doctors appointment, or even make one for this purpose alone, and let him hear for himself that you are FINE.
Also, he has lost two children, and has come very close to losing you TWICE. He has a right to be worried for a little while.
2007-02-28 12:07:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
neither of you is in control. God has your days numbered. He knows when you were born and when you will die. If either of you were to die today, where will you spend eternity and why do you think that would be true? He could be hit by a car and you could out live him. Be ready for the day when you stand before God to answer his question: why should I let you into my heaven?
2007-02-28 12:08:09 · answer #3 · answered by northville 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell him that going somewhere didn't make you almost die, it was the miscarriages. start by taking day trips, then overnighters.
2007-02-28 12:09:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Assuming you are not pregnant at the time it shouldn't be an issue.
2007-02-28 12:03:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
He worries. you two have lost two babies. he doesn't want to lose his wife too. he just scared.
2007-02-28 12:05:24 · answer #6 · answered by Ari A 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
take little trips to prove it.
2007-02-28 12:04:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
This question is too vague.....where are you going and why.
2007-02-28 12:05:56 · answer #8 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋