I told my boyfriend that i was pregnant and he broke up with me but he says that he just wants to think for a little while. I dont know how to tell my mother cuz i know that she is going to ask me about him. What should i do.
2007-02-28 04:00:58 · 17 answers · asked by mlo11491 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
how far pregnant are you? do you think you will get back together? do you want to? if you do then maybe you could wait a week or two to tell her if not well your going to have to tell her sometime may as well get it over with she might not react the way you think she will. I remember having to tell my dad i was pregant it was just a feeling of shear dread i wasn't on my own but my partner is alot older than me and my dad hadn't even met him they get on great now but he didnt react very well when i told him but he soon calmed down and was happy for me he and my son are hard to seperate now and hes always round at my house and they spend every saturday together. Good luck!!!
2007-02-28 04:12:00 · answer #1 · answered by kazz06 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you need to tell your mom, even if she gets mad that he isn't in the pic anymore....but you need to tell her from start to end...and just be honest....thats the only way to go about things like this....
and hun, your boyfriend will most likely not come back into the pic. when i told my boyfriend about me being pregnant he said the same thing .....and it is 4 & 1/2 - 5 months later and he still isn't back....i know it's hard and sucks but just make sure you don't get your hopes up about him coming back....
and if you every need anyone to talk too i'm here, feel free to message me anytime
2007-02-28 05:59:20 · answer #2 · answered by mommy to be 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm. First you should tell her you are happy to be a mom, and when she asks tell her that he knows the news but you haven't decided on where the relationship is going to evolve or going to develop into a stronger friendship with a co-parenting role.
2007-02-28 04:05:20 · answer #3 · answered by joy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The same thing happened to me. I had to tell my parents that I was pregnant(at 17) and that Chris had left me. It's hard but your mom will help you through it, Send me and email if you ever wanna talk.
2007-03-01 12:26:11 · answer #4 · answered by Carrie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
exact same thing happend to me and my parents never even suspected we were having sex so i was terrified to tell her and my dad. i decided to write a detailed letter so that they would have time to think before talking about it. i also explained that i was not willing to discuss the father at this time until he had decided weather or not he was going to be a part of it or not. it worked out really well they had time to cool off and i went to see them 2 days later
2007-02-28 04:13:26 · answer #5 · answered by Britt 2 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would tell your mother and both you and your mother go talk to him and his parents together..Your boyfriend and well as yourself got you in this big mess and it wouldn't be fair if he got off the hook that easily....
Next time..WEAR A CONDOM OR BETTER YET STOP HAVING SEX TIL YOUR OLD ENOUGH!
2007-02-28 04:13:18 · answer #6 · answered by Kasja 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell her. You will have to sooner or later. She may not have as big a reaction as you might think. Your parents may not approve, but they will help and support you.
2007-02-28 04:36:59 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
write her a note and put on her pillow and sleep over and a friends for the weekend give her time to cool off,then talk to her.
2007-02-28 04:05:18 · answer #8 · answered by ms.redhead 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to tell her. You can not control whether she will except it. But if she does except it you will need all the support you can get.
2007-02-28 04:13:33 · answer #9 · answered by wolf-father 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her like you told us.
2007-02-28 04:22:01 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋