i was wondering if you believe this even though the have had no sexual contact of the other sex. or do you believe they aren't and they can lose their virginities even if they didn't have heteroal sex as one does with a man and a woman?
2007-02-28 03:52:55 · 21 answers · asked by deb2rule 5 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
A virgin has never had ANY sex, be it anal, oral or vaginal.
2007-02-28 03:55:48 · answer #1 · answered by professionaleccentric 5 · 6⤊ 2⤋
No, for a few reasons -
1) Just because someone is LGBT, doesn't mean they have not had relations with the opposite sex. It just means they know where their true orientation lies.
2) To me, if you have had sex or orgasm, you are no longer a virgin. Yes, I know this may only be "in spirit," technically, if this only involves M-F relations.
How about this - I would call myself far from a virgin, but have not had sex with a woman. Is that definition enough, if someone were rude enough to ask that question?
2007-02-28 11:57:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
First of all, there are a lot of gay and lesbian people who have had and still continue to have sex with the opposite sex (in the closet, people in self denial) so no. And, no anyways. Have you not considered the various sexual things that people do that are not technically penis-vagina insertion? I believe if two men insert their penis into each other's various body parts and two women stick their tongues and fingers in each others body parts (especially if the outcome is orgasm), I think it's safe to say they are not virgins.
2007-02-28 12:09:42 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have no problem with the definition of virginity having been extended from being exclusively relating to chaste, straight women to now include: straight men, gay men and lesbians.
As such I got to lose my virginity twice. Even though I was never a chaste maiden.
2007-02-28 12:00:13 · answer #4 · answered by unclefrunk 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, no. That's just stupid. If someone's gotten genital stimulation, they're not a virgin, BFL. I'd hate to think that a person who's had four partners is a "virgin".
Besides, many gay and lesbian people have tried mixed-gender sex. (This is for many reasons, but they all boil down to wanting to feel normal and see if they can change.)
2007-02-28 11:58:06 · answer #5 · answered by GreenEyedLilo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For most instances yes. They might have the tendances but do not follow through with them. Penetration of any kind takes your virginity away. How about a man in prison for life do you think he's a virgin?
2007-02-28 12:03:58 · answer #6 · answered by mkdenton1943 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what? If they are gay and have had sex, they are NOT virgins. Homo or hetero sex set aside, sexual contact= loss of virginity.
2007-02-28 11:56:41 · answer #7 · answered by country_girl 6 · 4⤊ 0⤋
I am not for sure because I have been with a woman a long time ago!
2007-02-28 11:59:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No we're not all virgins. Virgin means someone who never had sex, without looking at genders.
2007-02-28 11:56:07 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 2⤋
some are and some are not....unless you are talking the physical part of a women that indicates virginity....
2007-02-28 11:59:36 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Any sexual activity is considered devirginized. And yes, gays and lesbians can be virgins just like straight people--if they haven't had sex, they're virgins. DUH.
2007-02-28 11:56:44 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋