am losing my head everything does'nt matter anymore,lifes not worth it....i've been very sucidal lately but have'nt got the courage do something i feel am as alone as when i was in prison......i have flashbacks of my incarceration the way the prison guards used to beat us.....she is the only thing 'keeping me alive' but she is doing her masters abroad...
i need real answers before i choose not to exist anymore..please help!!!
2007-02-28 03:23:32 · 11 answers · asked by lucky 7 2 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
don't do anything dum. just hang in there. if u say your women is studying abroad then wait for her- if u really love her. deciding to suicide yourelf would make u a coward for not being strong and facing the real world. try to do something that could take your mind of your women for a while or call her and see how she is. i don't think she would like to see u dead. STAY ALIVE
2007-02-28 03:36:27 · answer #1 · answered by tenniscolleggrl24 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A lot of people go through a stage of deep depression and/or suicidal thoughts, and seeing the traumitizing things you have been through, your mind is having trouble coping with the past. This will take a very long time, maybe even years to get over. You need to seek medical help, like see a therapist or something along those lines. It will really help. And the woman that you have, all I can really tell you is that she's doing something important for her so she needs your support. I know you're going through a rough time, but remember that you have someone that really cares about you, she needs you here just as much or even more than anyone else does.
2007-02-28 11:42:08 · answer #2 · answered by Katelynn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are at all suicidal, go to the nearest emergency room and check your self into the psych-ward. If you even think for a moment about ended your life, then you are not safe to be by yourself. You sound so scared, and this way you will not be alone ever. This will ensure that you are there when this girl does come back. If you truely love this girl, then you do not want to hurt her. Think about how you would feel if anything happened to her? If not for yourself, but her go check yourself into the hospital. They will monitor you 24 hours and you will not be in danger of harming yourself. I have been a psych-ward a time or two, but always after suicide attempts. I wish I would have been smart enough to have not done the damage to my body that I have done. This all could have been prevented by early intervention. If you love this girl like you say you do then go get help for her atleast.
2007-02-28 11:48:31 · answer #3 · answered by Dani 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
RELAX. Accept the fact that she can't be with you right this very moment cause she has to be there, she has to take her masters. Do something of your interest that will keep your mind off her because the more you do nothing, the more she will occupy your thoughts. Do something that you have been wanting to do before. Develop a hobby or a sport. Read a book. It's all in the mind.
2007-02-28 11:37:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to cope. See, is it worth it? Do you really want to be with someone who doesnt want you anymore? The point is , it wouldnt be the same relationship as before. Get together with some friends . Go out and meet new people. I know it's easier done than said but seriously, is dying an answer to it?
2007-02-28 11:39:20 · answer #5 · answered by Virginnniiiaa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have four options:
1. go and live wherever she is and do whatever work you can find there to support yourself
2. go to every singles event you can find and look for the ones who's (inner) beauty takes a while to discover, but is way superior from then on
3. combine a short-term plan of 2. with a long-term plan of getting back together with your woman
4. do the things you enjoy and set yourself a minimum & maximum of only 3-9 dates per year, freeing you up to do the other things you crave in the mean-time (until you find THE one)
2007-02-28 11:54:13 · answer #6 · answered by Wise Kai 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have had thoughts like that too but ur strong with or without her and u survived prison dont give up and dont make the mistake of bringing her down when she needs to study but u are not alone u can always talk to me good luck
2007-02-28 11:42:53 · answer #7 · answered by zendafranklin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to get a grip on life and learn to be able to depend on yourself for things and not rely on everyone else for everything. You need to step up to the plate and say i am a big boy and I CAN do this. Be brave!
2007-02-28 11:33:09 · answer #8 · answered by Tigerluvr 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are having suicidal thoughts and flashbacks then see your gp. You may need cognative therapy and medication.
Can you not go abroad with your lady and work there?
2007-02-28 11:35:37 · answer #9 · answered by laplandfan 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2007-02-28 11:26:22 · answer #10 · answered by Lola F 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋