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well i have a problem well not really i don't know well my mom is abusing me and i am not doing my work at school and i can't make time to call my boyfriend. and i don't know what to do because i love him i don't ever want to brake up with him but able to see him is pprobly hurting him and i don't want to do that. and we think we r ment to be toghether and we have everything in common and i don't know what to do every time i think about braking up with him it feels like a part of me is dieing what should i do ?

2007-02-28 03:22:55 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science Psychology

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If somebody, even your mother, is abusing you then you need to talk to someone in authority that you can trust, someone like a teacher. Easy for me to say I know but it will not be stopped unless you seek help.

2007-02-28 03:30:36 · answer #1 · answered by sarch_uk 7 · 1 0

I am not making light of your dilemma, however, you don't seem certain about the abuse you mention. Could it be that you are accusing your mom of abusing you because you are not being allowed to see your boyfriend when you should be paying attenton to your studies?

Be honest about this! 99.9% of what your are attempting to relate is about your emotional involvement with this boy; not about the abuse you accuse your mom of inflicting on you.

I see you have been advised already to focus on your school work. You should take this piece of advice rather strongly and diligently. At the end of the day, you will need to be able to function literately in this society or else even your boyfriend will find you a problem.

Be sensible about this! Your entire life is hinged on your choices.

Why don't you pray about it? You will find peace; something no boyfriend can give to you.

2007-02-28 12:19:59 · answer #2 · answered by SANCHA 5 · 0 0

Get a grip on yourself. You are so young still. You are ruling your life with your emotions. I suggest you refocus your priorities. School is first and most important, boyfriend is secondary. If the boyfriend gets bothered because you want to go study or do homework instead of spending time with him, he is not the boyfriend for you. If you have classes together, maybe you both can study together. If the boyfriend really likes you and cares about you, you should be able to do your homework and focus on school without worrying on losing him.

How is your mother abusing you? If your mother is abusing you to the point of harming your body and life, then I suggest contacting the police.

2007-02-28 11:35:55 · answer #3 · answered by JB 4 · 0 0

The best thing you can do for yourself is if you are being abused, report it. Then you need to seek counselling. You need to seek the Lord -- He will help you get through this. He has been there. He was abused by many and He knows just how you feel. He can turn your life into a joyous experience by saving your soul and giving you everlasting peace. He has for me. Just remember, Jesus loves you.

2007-02-28 11:38:00 · answer #4 · answered by bb67 1 · 0 0

I think you should put your school work 1st and explain to your boyfriend that school needs to come 1st, you can look at your spelling for an example and see you need to learn from your own mistakes. Then after you listen to your mother who does know what the best thing for you to do is until you are an adult and on your own, then you can make your decision's and hopefully you will have been taught to use your brain 1st.

2007-02-28 11:30:03 · answer #5 · answered by Tigerluvr 6 · 1 0

well breaking up is not easy. especially if you feel strongly about some one how you have grown attach to. i guess sometime your heart feels one way and your mind feels a other way. I believe that you need to be in a place were you can get both mind and heart to get their and you can think about your feelings and know what you really want out of the relationship. if still you steel feel that you guys deserved a other chance, then give it, but if not then you know what to do. because in the long run you and him will end up hurting each other more then you think. i wish you good luck in your decision.

2007-02-28 11:35:02 · answer #6 · answered by jiovani g 1 · 0 1

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