do you have any advice for me?

Question

i went to a friends wedding party a few weeks ago where i met a lady who used to visit our campus when we were younger. she came and talk to me so i told her she used to visit us and i asked her if she remembered me, but she didn't. she came and sat next to me to talk briefly few times throughout the night and we made a few eye contacts. she has crossed my mind a few times since then so i got her number from my friend's new wife and i called her but she was having a bad day, she told me she was free the next day should i wish to call her. i was busy the neext day so i didn't but i text her to tell her i would call during the week when time is appropriate. she has not text back!

she is single and 22 years old, 6 years younger than me.

should i try call her again? what are some good conversation starters for this age group?

Answer 1

Dude, I think she's just not that into you.

Answer 2

you need to be open to more than just this one girl.

If not, you may end up missing out of the girl of your dreams.

I'm not saying to give up. I'm simply saying that you not act now as if you are committed to her. You should be looking for other girls to date.

Also, I wouldn't be attracted to a girl who says "I'm having a bad day" when you are first trying to get to know her. That is very unimpressive. Who wants to be around a girl/guy who "moans" instead of trying to show a good side of themselves (at least for a while).

Answer 3

Women are quite capable of making their feelings known. Sounds to me like she's being somewhat aloof. Don't make any further attempts or advances. Let her come to you. If she's at all interested, she will. If not, keep on looking and don't waste anymore time on this one.

Answer 4

ya may be disappointed if ya fail, but your doomed if ya don't try. just ask the young lady out for a latte or maybe to a movie.

Answer 5

Try once more If she doesn't answer, drop it.