Hi im a a female and i like girls and recently i had this gf and we went out for 6 and 1/2 months well we broke up and she started dating a guy..well he beats her and i thinks she misses me! Do u thinks its possible for us to get back together? And how would i go about getting back with her?
2007-02-28 03:12:43 · 6 answers · asked by Trish W 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Well she needs to leave him no matter what. Don't worry about whether you and her end up together just try and support her and get her out of this abusive relationship. Whatever happens in the future between the two of you will happen and isn't something you need to be focusing on at the moment. If you care about her then make her your priority, make sure she's okay.
2007-02-28 03:26:08 · answer #1 · answered by helehelo 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
That's the worse that could ever happen!
Lady, she chose her destiny. Obviously this guy is NOT good for her, however, unless she sees it, you can lure her away, but she will keep running back to him, and vice versa (her running to you for comfort until she misses him enough to run back)
I would strongly suggest, you be there for her, and let her feel that she is making her own decision. During your time together, talk about how you feel - what happened that caused you to break up? Explain to her, about your hurt, and how you feel about the way the guy treats her (but I caution you - telling her this may push her closer to him - so you don't want to hinder on this issue alone) Ask her what it would take to have her back in your arms again?
Knowing a little more than you know now may help you decide which direction is best for you .. and perhaps best for both of you. Just be prepared to hear, learn and discuss all she may wish to tell you. It could very well be one helluva eye-opener.
I wish you the best.
Cheers,
bga
2007-02-28 03:29:01 · answer #2 · answered by bga 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just give her space and be there for her. She is in a bad situation right now and will need a friend to help her through it. She may come back to you in the end. Only time will tell. Best of luck to you and I hope she gets out of that relationship soon.
2007-02-28 03:29:55 · answer #3 · answered by hippie_chick69love 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be a supportive friend. Anything else will be a bonus but likely a repeat of history.
2007-02-28 03:39:29 · answer #4 · answered by unclefrunk 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
very possible, but she is in a bad relationship now. Just be there for her
2007-02-28 03:16:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Help her, do what you can for her..
2007-02-28 03:30:13 · answer #6 · answered by XX 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋