I always assumed that I was bi because I was still attracted to men. Last night a coworker introduced me to this really great guy and I ended up going to his house to hang out. We started fooling around and I found myself wishing he were a woman. I spent most the night doing the whole soul searching thing and knew that I was not bisexual, but gay. I know he is attracted to me and I don't want to hurt his pride but I don't want to pretend.
2007-02-28 02:50:24 · 7 answers · asked by witch_alina 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Guys tend to be more resilient than you think. Tell him honestly that he is not what you are looking for from someone you date, that you don't have anything against him. That should be enough for him and he will recover and move on. Then you can go and find the girl for you. Good Luck!
2007-02-28 03:06:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well honey i got to tell ya he will probably first find it hot and say can i watch like most men do it wont hurt his pride and baby congrats on being yourself just tell him the truth and everything will be ok go with your heart and you will find the right woman to please and love you he will get over quick believe me i had a ex boyfriend that when he found out i was a lesbian he asked me why i never told him because it was such a turn on to him lol so no worries sweetie
2007-02-28 10:57:14 · answer #2 · answered by lady heather 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ouch! I guess let him down easy by saying that you weren't sure of your sexuality and went along with the date to make your co-worker happy and that you're actually lesbian. Either that or you can just tell him the truth and hope that he doesn't turn to some weird conclusions like he turns girls gay.
Blessed be
2007-02-28 12:23:14 · answer #3 · answered by carora13 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you really had fun with him, but you are looking for a different type of person. He does not need to know that you are gay.
2007-02-28 11:11:03 · answer #4 · answered by happybibottom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him a token rub off and let me know you only like raisin pie
2007-02-28 11:24:55 · answer #5 · answered by ManOfLove 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"Thanks for the other night - it really helped me a lot. I just know it's not going to go anywhere. I'm sorry, but we won't be dating again."
2007-02-28 11:56:15 · answer #6 · answered by unclefrunk 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say "I'm sorry Satan, but God speaks for me!"
2007-02-28 10:55:19 · answer #7 · answered by Jason A 1 · 0⤊ 11⤋