hello.
Today we found out that my girlfriend is pregnant. 11 weeks. Is there any way to prevent without any damage to the health? or is it too late? how about abortion? please need help!!!???
Thanks.
2007-02-28 02:43:23 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
if you do not want this baby there are many loving families waiting to adopt a child. The truth about abortion is that it is very damaging to the mother emotionally. Most women are emotionally scarred in some way for the rest of their lives. most women who have gone through an abortion go through depression also. I had a teen pregnancy, my parents were very religious and hated the father of my baby. His parents suggested we abort the baby. I knew the the baby was alive and I couldn't find it in my heart to abort the life I had created. My daughter is now 5 and a huge blessing to me and my now husband. My family is the best thing I have. It did postpone my goals for the future a bit, I'm in college now working on a degree in nursing. please consider the life of the baby, it did not ask to be conceived, but it is alive. Please look into adoption it sounds like that would be a possibility for your situation. For my situation keeping the baby was the hardest but best choice I ever made.
2007-02-28 03:01:59 · answer #1 · answered by babe407 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I think is may be pass having an abortion, if she was 11 weeks along. The doctor would of asked her if she wanted to have the baby or have an abortion at that time. You could still call the doctor about it and ask to make sure if she can not do that. again she may not to abort the child, it is her carrying it, not you. You two need to really talk this over seriously, and if need be she should be getting appointments to keep her and the baby save , with an OBY doctor.
as so some women the obortion, can cause damage in them and they may not have childern later in the future, cause of it. I have known of people who this has happen to, and now they wish they would of not had the abortion.
2007-02-28 02:58:54 · answer #2 · answered by Ladyofathousandfaces 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know anything about the appropriate time frame for a healthy abortion...I'm pro-life. I just wanted to give you something to think about that's really probably the furthest thing from your mind right now. If you do go through with the abortion, should the time come for either of you to start dating other people, the fact that you've done that could break a potentially beautiful relationship.
I have a friend that started dating a great guy. He was almost perfect in every way. But then she found out that an old girlfriend of his had gotten pregnant and they decided to have an abortion. My friend couldn't get past that (understandable) and had to break it off with him.
Just something to think about...
2007-02-28 03:29:06 · answer #3 · answered by Red 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The "DAMAGE" as you call it is done. She is pregnant and now it is time to be responsible for your actions. If you would had had unprotected sex once you could have went to the Dr. and she could have gotten a morning after pill. But she is 11 weeks pregant. There is a baby inside her, heart beating and all. If anything please give this baby up for adoption if ya'll don't want it. There are several people out there that want kids and can't have them for whatever reason. I have a frriend that had an abortion and she regrets it. They told her that the baby wasn't developed yet. But when they performed the abortion she said she could hear the baby's bones breaking. It was a very tramuatizing experience for her. Once again if anything please give the baby up for adoption.
2007-02-28 02:58:21 · answer #4 · answered by lil momma 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Abortion seems to be the solution you are looking for. However, it is important that you concider all the aspects of abortiona dn that you do not pressure her into getting one. Its a tough choice to make, and you should not blackmail her into it. Should you both decide to do it, then you should be supportive of her throughout the process, as it is emotionally taxing. And while it is a couple's decision, she should have the final say on the matter, its her body after all.
Should you keep it, then you can decide between adoption or raising the kid yourself, chose the one you feel would be the best for the kid.
It's not an easy choice to make, and well, think about it and don't make a decision out of fear. Seek support with your families, maybe they will offer you the help you need to keep the kid or to deal with the emotional pain related to abortion.
2007-02-28 02:55:12 · answer #5 · answered by ryushinigami 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ultimately it's not going to be your decision, it will be your girlfriends. Sometimes they listen and live with that guilt all their life, others do it feel like it was necessary. I don't know where I stand on the topic, I mean I believe the woman should always have the choice but personally I could never do it. I'never been real spiritual but Carl Sandburg said, "A baby is God's opinion that the world should go on." Don't pressure her into making a decision just support whatever she chooses.
2007-02-28 03:14:18 · answer #6 · answered by Melissa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can have a safe abortion up to 14 weeks but the sooner the better! Abortions can be preformed after 14 weeks but there is a greater health risk. If you two decide to have an abortion I would do it right away
2007-02-28 02:51:50 · answer #7 · answered by Diamond~ I <3 my Son 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You should have thought about that before you had sex. Please don't abort, you have no idea how much joy a child will bring to your life. My husband and i were just engaged when we found out we were pregnant with our son. We were not ready, scared as hell but abortion was never an option for us. Our son has been such a wonderful blessing. If you really don't want a baby then put it up for adoption, there are so many couples who can not have babies of their own that are waiting for babies. Before i had my son i did not have an opinion on abortion, but after i had him and experienced how much happiness that little miracle has brought us abortion scares the crap out of me. Like i said, take responsibility for your actions and be an adult and take care of that little angel. They did not ask to be here, you brought them here and you need to live up to that.
2007-02-28 02:52:53 · answer #8 · answered by micah z 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
C'mon now..its done and no good feeling will come out of trying to stop it, i mean later in life you will probably regret ever doing that. Stop thinking negative and think of all the positive that can come out of it, you seem like you may be too young and scared, if you need help don't be afraid to ask some relatives or something. Thats Gods child (not to sound cheesy) but hes only allowing you guys to take care of her/him. So buck up and do just that. Best Wishes =)
2007-02-28 02:52:07 · answer #9 · answered by Jinkies 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-26 20:19:57 · answer #10 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋